sweetblubrry Posted February 20, 2011 Posted February 20, 2011 It has been a little over three weeks since he broke up with me, we were together for 7 months. We never fought, had minor disagreements. This pretty much just came out of nowhere. We both work at the same company so there are times where I do see him but for the most part I don't. We have a lot of mutual friends and they have told me that he is just confused. He doesn't know who he is or what he wants in life. He said it didn't have to do with me (during the breakup he said it did). The breakup was just an insane amount of excuses and whatnot and him breaking down crying. I have been NC pretty much the entire time besides little 5-10 second "hello, how are you" convos where it was nothing in depth but can't be helped because I see him at work sometimes. I know for a fact he is definitely going thru some life stuff right now. :/ How could he tell me he loved me so much and then just disappear from my life? His best friends can't even get him to talk. So today I ended up seeing him at work again. The last time was last Sunday and we didn't talk at all... and it was a nightmare for me. So much pain. Today was different. He kept trying to talk to me today and asking me about interviews he thought I had (I don't know where he got that from maybe facebook?) but I was sitting there thinking ok... whats with the sudden interest in my life again? After not speakin to me for 3 weeks. And also he found an excuse to physically touch me... on the shoulder when he was behind me to let him know that he was there. He also would smile at me when I looked at him and hovered around where I was standing. I am not sure if he's playing mind games or what. I can feel that he still cares. But I don't know what to do or think right now. I really miss him a lot.
loveforever Posted February 20, 2011 Posted February 20, 2011 It has been a little over three weeks since he broke up with me, we were together for 7 months. We never fought, had minor disagreements. This pretty much just came out of nowhere. We both work at the same company so there are times where I do see him but for the most part I don't. We have a lot of mutual friends and they have told me that he is just confused. He doesn't know who he is or what he wants in life. He said it didn't have to do with me (during the breakup he said it did). The breakup was just an insane amount of excuses and whatnot and him breaking down crying. I have been NC pretty much the entire time besides little 5-10 second "hello, how are you" convos where it was nothing in depth but can't be helped because I see him at work sometimes. I know for a fact he is definitely going thru some life stuff right now. :/ How could he tell me he loved me so much and then just disappear from my life? His best friends can't even get him to talk. So today I ended up seeing him at work again. The last time was last Sunday and we didn't talk at all... and it was a nightmare for me. So much pain. Today was different. He kept trying to talk to me today and asking me about interviews he thought I had (I don't know where he got that from maybe facebook?) but I was sitting there thinking ok... whats with the sudden interest in my life again? After not speakin to me for 3 weeks. And also he found an excuse to physically touch me... on the shoulder when he was behind me to let him know that he was there. He also would smile at me when I looked at him and hovered around where I was standing. I am not sure if he's playing mind games or what. I can feel that he still cares. But I don't know what to do or think right now. I really miss him a lot. That sounds good to me !!!!!! 3 weeks of NC might have given him enough time to miss you !!!!!! Physical touch like that is a good thing I would say...... I would try to keep up the NC for a little while longer and see if he's trying to contact you again..... He definitely seems interested to me..... Best of luck !!!!!!!!
Author sweetblubrry Posted February 20, 2011 Author Posted February 20, 2011 Thanks, i hope so! Forgot to add What should I do next? Continue to be NC and just kinda be friendly addressing that he is there and then moving on with what I am doing? Man this NC stuff really does seem to work.
loveforever Posted February 20, 2011 Posted February 20, 2011 Thanks, i hope so! Forgot to add What should I do next? Continue to be NC and just kinda be friendly addressing that he is there and then moving on with what I am doing? Man this NC stuff really does seem to work. Yes !!! Do that !!!!!! And let me know how it goes !!!!!
Author sweetblubrry Posted February 21, 2011 Author Posted February 21, 2011 Can I have more opinions on this please? Thanks
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