2011 Posted February 20, 2011 Posted February 20, 2011 Hi I already posted my break up story here but I am more wanting some views on the last communication I had with my ex. Right it was about a month ago, I hadn't seen her since before xmas, that was when I was trying to patch things up but she was cold and not very responsive. She never dumped me and I never dumped her (this is what makes it kind of difficult in a way) but we just kind drifted apart, I tried LC and then I txted a load of drunken ****e (big big regret) after a week or so, I deleted her FB as I did not want to keep seeing her posts as I felt she was directing things at me and acting a bit strange. We then spoke about a month ago (end of jan) on chat, I went on and she initiated contact you know "hey you how's things" and all that, she seemed kind of annoyed and touchy but we spoke for an hour or so, kind of had a we laugh here and there but you could really feel the tension, then we went. I then spoke to her again on chat about a week later, kind of awkward so I decided to cut it short and I stupidly said Maybe we could meet up next week I got some free time and want to get out. She said yeah ok but she said she would let me know when she was available. I thought ok she done this before, agreed then flaked out so I left her a VM saying I was going here at this time and if she wanted to come along that would be fine. I done this to kind of kill of her flake out because I just knew she would never contact me. Now since that I decided to go NC, for my own sanity, and have not heard from her since. Now what I want to ask is what is going round in her head, I just do not know, why did she agree to go out full well knowing she was going to flake, not contact and have me waiting around for her, which I was not prepared to do, is this her just playing games with me as she probably hates me, she seems to hold grudges, or is she up to something else? I just do not know how she feels about me, it seems pretty obvious to an outsider that she is pissed with me and wants nothing to do with me, but why talk all chatty one week and then blank me or play games the next? Appreaciate all comments on this one. 2011
D78 Posted February 21, 2011 Posted February 21, 2011 2011, You left her a vm saying you're going to this place at this time, and she didn't show up... but did she ever agree to go? If my ex left me a vm saying "Yeah, if you wanna see me I'll be at the park at 6:00," and I didn't go to the park, I wouldn't feel like I was flaking. But you should stay NC regardless. Anyone you have so little faith in is not worth your time! Good luck.
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