jordsmith9 Posted February 20, 2011 Posted February 20, 2011 Hello, My girlfriend and I are really happy together except for this one issue. Which is my exgirlfriend. KT (my girlfriend) and I have been together 1.5 years and this has always been an issue. I have never cheated or even thought of doing so, but sometimes she makes me feel as if I had. She is bothered my the fact that I had sex for the 1st time with my ex-girlfriend which was way before I even knew of her and she thinks she will always be a "runner up" because of it. KT and I went ring shopping about a month or so ago, and it was amazing. She's the one for me folks truly all around amazing women. I just want her to get past this issue because I can't change it. I want to give u some background on the ex situation and why things have been rocky lately. My ex had been texting me and calling me for awhile. I wasn't answering and ignoring it and ignoring it. I think in the many many times she tried to contact me I maybe answered 4-5 times just to say look im not mad im over it, ive moved on and found the person I want to be with. Basically I was trying to be nice and no sound bitter. Well within the past 2-3 months she had contacted me via text saying that my address and credit card info was on a statement she had. Soon after that text message she called me. I asked her what info was on there and it turned out it was all my current info. She started trying to talk and I told her that it was over and i didnt want to say anymore. So the phone call ended and I went on with my day. I was at work at the time and was riding with my partner she heard the whole thing. So a couple weeks after that my ex facebooked KT and said how wonderful I am, and that shes happy I found someone that im happy with and all this "nice" stuff. I just think it was to put some bs in KT's head and try and mess things up. Well then KT calls me and said my ex messaged her, and she freaked out saying that I never told her that she was contacting me and that I was lying about everything. When I didn't want to say anything to her because I didn't want her to worry about it all the time. Like i know she would. I even blocked my ex number so she couldnt contact me and she still did it. WTF! i just need help on healing my relationship with KT back so we can get engaged and married. i love her so much and it hurts to think that your partner in life can't trust you because of something you only did to try and help. Now, it's exactly where I tried to stop it from going all because someone wants to ruin my life. I told KT after that I was going to call and tell my ex never to contact anyone I know again and KT said that if I contacted her she would leave. Now KT thinks I want to be with my ex even though I have told her that I would never string her along if I wasn't serious about everything I tell her. I just really need advice, support or help! thanks for taking the time to read my book. signed a guy who needs a womens help.
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