DLFresh Posted February 20, 2011 Posted February 20, 2011 Thanks for reading and any advice...My GF and I were together almost 3 years...we thought we were the ones for each other and talked about marriage, kids, and lived together...we had had some talks before but she said she wanted to live apart and felt that there were connection/communication problems between us...that we may not be meant for the long haul. Well, I told her i understood but did not want to break up...she said she needed space to see what she was feeling, etc. 2 weeks later I moved out, and left her a note stating how much she meant to me and that we shouldn't throw it all away, and I will miss her (and our dog) - here is the email she responded with: Saw you came by this morning... thanks for the note. I am still at a loss for words in my own confusion... Hopefully this time apart will help me (and us) figure out what's going on in our hearts. The next day was Valentine's day, so I sent her a a quick email saying "Hey, I still wanted to wish you a Happy Valentine's day" Her reponse: Thanks. Happy Valentine's Day too you too Hope you had an alright day & your feeling good in your new place. Maybe I can come by and see it once you are settled... Don't forget to send me your address so I can forward anything that comes here your way. Right now we are on day 5 of no contact...I will have to talk to her again at somepoint about our house...I want her back but i don't want to blow it...does anyone see any chance in this of a reconciliation? Should I just walk away? Help Please!!!
SDA Posted February 20, 2011 Posted February 20, 2011 Relax is the first thing you do. Don't send anymore notes. Call her only if you need something from your place. Just do your own thing for awhile. Let her explore this feeling. Everything will fall into place. Just relax.
gator12 Posted February 20, 2011 Posted February 20, 2011 Read my guide (in my sig) take a deep breath and relax. The guide is the advice You aren't going to get her back overnight and it is better that way. She needs time apart right now so stick to NC, anything else will just be smothering her. Stay strong it will be hard, pay special notice to the section about crumbs so you don't bite on any of them because they WILL come, they always do. -Gator
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