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i want to pull NC with my ex but we hang out in a group together, and i dont not want to go because i dont want her to ruin my social life with my other friends. Were going to the movies tonight and we're bound to catch up atleast once a week, so should i just ignore her, if she says something to me just acknowledge it? saw her last week and she was talking to me a bit, after being broken up for 3 weeks, could be awkward because i blocked her on facebook.. sorry if ive kind of mentioned something like this before but i need some advice

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i want to pull NC with my ex but we hang out in a group together, and i dont not want to go because i dont want her to ruin my social life with my other friends. Were going to the movies tonight and we're bound to catch up atleast once a week, so should i just ignore her, if she says something to me just acknowledge it? saw her last week and she was talking to me a bit, after being broken up for 3 weeks, could be awkward because i blocked her on facebook.. sorry if ive kind of mentioned something like this before but i need some advice

well now time is with you and catch this time and use it for your persönal benefit.You told that she dumped you 3 week before,so its natural dat u have also a revenge intension on her.You wil never get peace until you dumped her,after breakup love works like a competition.She talks to you after breakup in group so take a chance and again try to fall her in your artificial love and wait for a good day and just kick off her.TIT FOR TAT.Or if u dont want to do it then avoid her,u can see her face but follow NC and dont response her.Thank you.

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cheers, i think ill just avoid her, i dont really want to hurt her

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never listen to advice if it involves hurting your ex.

 

avoiding her is your best bet.

 

if you can't avoid her, keep low contact -speak only if she speaks to you and pretend you are not attracted and interested in her at all times.

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i want to pull NC with my ex but we hang out in a group together, and i dont not want to go because i dont want her to ruin my social life with my other friends. Were going to the movies tonight and we're bound to catch up atleast once a week, so should i just ignore her, if she says something to me just acknowledge it? saw her last week and she was talking to me a bit, after being broken up for 3 weeks, could be awkward because i blocked her on facebook.. sorry if ive kind of mentioned something like this before but i need some advice

 

id just mind my own business and have fun with my friends. if she happens in say something, sure, just acknowledge it & laugh it off!

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