turokturok5 Posted February 20, 2011 Posted February 20, 2011 sorry ive been posting on this quite a bit, but i needa just get my head straight. i was basically dumped for being clingy, by my girlfriend of 2 months, and i was her first boyfriend and we were really close before we started dating because we had a lot in common. I realised i was being clingy so it kinda sucked, when she broke up with me she cried, she made me stay at her house for hours so we could just talk normally and her friends told me she didnt know if she had made the right descison and seemed lost. I tried to plead my case a few days later, i rang her telling her i was cool with the breakup, but rang again asking if i could see her, and told her how i felt, that i knew what i was doing wrong and i was going to try fix it, but she said it just couldnt happen and we were better off. 3 weeks today, im thinking about starting no contact, ive deleted her off facebook, and pretty much deleted her from my life (although i still think about her a lot, and do wish we could work something out) but her friend told me shes cut up about the break-up and cant get me out of ger head. Should i try no contact, if she does truly want to be friends with me, because im apparently the nicest and sweetest guy she had ever met, and she'll come back to me, or should i try to talk to her and apologise for deleteing her from facebook, and hope she realises im still the same guy she fell for, thanks.
Leandro Posted February 20, 2011 Posted February 20, 2011 well if she thinks you were too clingy, then I think the best thing to do is go NC. At least for a few weeks. Because if you keep bugging her and all, it's just going to show that she was right about you. I know its hard but you have to do. Also, do NC for you!! Not to get her back! It's to heal and get you back to your normal self. Remember that, don't be thinking that NC will get her back, because it might now.
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