Mangomonkey Posted February 20, 2011 Posted February 20, 2011 Down with jerks. Down with manipulators. Down with scumbags. Down with NICE GUYS!!!. Seriously. I get the feelings that i may have opened a box i shouldn't have. I see plenty of anti-nice guy movements going on. Can't we just hold hands and bash the jerks for a change?
xpaperxcutx Posted February 20, 2011 Posted February 20, 2011 No, the best way would have been ignoring the " nice guy" threads. Yet, here you are propogating more " nice guy" threads.
musemaj11 Posted February 20, 2011 Posted February 20, 2011 Down with jerks. Down with manipulators. Down with scumbags. Down with NICE GUYS!!!. Seriously. I get the feelings that i may have opened a box i shouldn't have. I see plenty of anti-nice guy movements going on. Can't we just hold hands and bash the jerks for a change? I agree. Down with nice guys!!!
LeaningIntoTheMuse Posted February 20, 2011 Posted February 20, 2011 I agree. Down with nice guys!!! How about getting down with nice guys, instead of putting them down and going after the players/jerks?
Untouchable_Fire Posted February 20, 2011 Posted February 20, 2011 Down with jerks. Down with manipulators. Down with scumbags. Down with NICE GUYS!!!. Seriously. I get the feelings that i may have opened a box i shouldn't have. I see plenty of anti-nice guy movements going on. Can't we just hold hands and bash the jerks for a change? How about having something more important in your life than just casing women. Part of the problem is guys who focus all their emotional energy on women. Rejection becomes petrifying as does losing a GF. With most relatioonships, you can't keep her if your not willing to lose her. I see several common strategies for not being the nice guy/doormat. The easiest one to use is objectification. It creates the right attitude for success... you just need to make sure and swap it out for another strategy once the confidence level is high enough.
runner Posted February 20, 2011 Posted February 20, 2011 pfff. PUA's and niceguys are both lame. being jedi is where it's at
threebyfate Posted February 20, 2011 Posted February 20, 2011 pfff. PUA's and niceguys are both lame. being jedi is where it's at So wise obi-wan!
Ay Diesel T Posted February 20, 2011 Posted February 20, 2011 pfff. PUA's and niceguys are both lame. being jedi is where it's at Fairly certain if I possessed the powers the Jedi do, I'd be a ruthless Sith. It just looks like way more fun. First thing I'd do is make Lady Gaga retire, then Soulja Boy.
runner Posted February 20, 2011 Posted February 20, 2011 So wise obi-wan! my lightsaber is irresistible. girls can't get enough
alethean Posted February 20, 2011 Posted February 20, 2011 First thing I'd do is make Lady Gaga retire, then Soulja Boy. I wish someone would...
carhill Posted February 20, 2011 Posted February 20, 2011 How about having something more important in your life than just casing women. Part of the problem is guys who focus all their emotional energy on women. OP, here's your wisdom. Hope you take it to heart. The human race has been, is and always will be a wide variety of 'styles' of thinking and living. It's inevitable. If you despise 'jerks', simply do not associate with them. Same with criminals, sociopaths, whatever. That's doing *your* part to living a healthier life for you. What other people do, or are attracted to, is their life and their business. My advice is to take the same data and apply a different perspective to it. Oh, and enjoy the sun. It's good to be alive
threebyfate Posted February 20, 2011 Posted February 20, 2011 my lightsaber is irresistible. girls can't get enough A force to be reckoned with!
sally4sara Posted February 20, 2011 Posted February 20, 2011 pfff. PUA's and niceguys are both lame. being jedi is where it's at Eh, give me Han Solo. Secret honorable, and not to be messed over.
jerbear Posted February 20, 2011 Posted February 20, 2011 You didn't say please and mentioned kumbaya.
Author Mangomonkey Posted February 20, 2011 Author Posted February 20, 2011 To carhill. I know what your saying and honestly i don't despise anyone or any kind of person. I reached a point where im more accepting of how things are and just really focus on me. I don't think anyone realized i was being sarcastic but oh well. May the force be with you
hrtbrk hotel tenant Posted February 21, 2011 Posted February 21, 2011 i have come to the realization that there is nothing wrong with being a nice guy. With that said women hate pushovers so be careful. I tried the "nice guy" routine catering to a females every whim thinking if i give her what she wants then we good....NOT!!! Though im no Don Juan i know now that most women like a man that doesnt allow them to have EVERYTHING...! i am a nice guy love women but i dont consider myself a pushover. I am not perfect but i am figuring out what i want. That is key "nice" guys have to get over this mindset of being a jerk to get women. It may work for some but if it aint you the woman will see right through it. Be urself and know what you want and stick to it...LOOK aint nuthing wrong with walkin away from a hot chic they will respect you more for it and u will respect urself better. I think many of us dont want to go that route because we think there arent any others....get a big azz net lol
carhill Posted February 21, 2011 Posted February 21, 2011 To carhill. I know what your saying and honestly i don't despise anyone or any kind of person. I reached a point where im more accepting of how things are and just really focus on me. I don't think anyone realized i was being sarcastic but oh well. May the force be with you No worries. Typically, internet custom is to use the or smilies when indicating sarcasm, if the poster isn't well-known for their sarcastic wit. I tend to answer OP's as if they are sincere in intent, so misunderstood. Here's a thread where I commented upon how everyone deserves love, even felons, and they appear to be loved, at least from the anecdotal evidence I gathered. Discuss.
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