shygal1 Posted February 20, 2011 Posted February 20, 2011 I have been dating someone for three months. Things were going great. Texts everyday. I miss you's .... They initiated conversations. Invited me to sleep over. I drunk texted that I had deep feelings. Now they are saying me feelings developed too fast. They don't want to hurt me and backed off. We argued I said It was a drunk text. He has come on strong as well. I called him immature and now we are not speaking. What did I do? Feelings are normal and a good thing.
purplehouse Posted February 20, 2011 Posted February 20, 2011 You're right, feelings are good. But sometimes it's too soon so speak them. Guys can freak out if they sense a girl getting too attached too soon. Three months isn't that long in the scheme of things. I tend to go all in, feelings evolve quickly if i really like someone etc... but i have learnt it's best to not let too much out until the right time. Give him some space, he will come back if he feels the same. I know it's hard...
Author shygal1 Posted February 20, 2011 Author Posted February 20, 2011 Thanks .... I won't text or call... He knows where to reach me. I'm mature enough to risk getting hurt If given respect and time. And he could have backed out long ago if he didn't want to hurt me. I don't buy it .
Duckduckgoose Posted February 20, 2011 Posted February 20, 2011 peanut butter sucks When it sticks in the roof of your mouth.
Ay Diesel T Posted February 20, 2011 Posted February 20, 2011 Thanks .... I won't text or call... He knows where to reach me. I'm mature enough to risk getting hurt If given respect and time. And he could have backed out long ago if he didn't want to hurt me. I don't buy it . Not necessarily. He could genuinely like you but wants to take things slow.
xpaperxcutx Posted February 20, 2011 Posted February 20, 2011 A person who genuinely likes you doesn't just go no contact. That's called the disappearing act, not taking it slow act.
Mrlonelyone Posted February 20, 2011 Posted February 20, 2011 A person who genuinely likes you doesn't just go no contact. That's called the disappearing act, not taking it slow act. Agreed. Total NC isn't taking it slow...that's trying to fade away. How long has he been totally Not Contacting you? He may or may not have a change of heart. Just go on living your life. If you even want his trifling @$$ back.
Author shygal1 Posted February 21, 2011 Author Posted February 21, 2011 So far it's been a day. But they made it clear they Dont want to Hurt me. I was catching feelings too soon. And it's been a day since we argued, but sounded like they thought it through, but who knows if theyll miss the attention and great treatment.
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