turokturok5 Posted February 20, 2011 Posted February 20, 2011 i was finally getting over her, then i found out she still has feelings for me. She broke up with me because she said she didnt feel the same, and i wasnt the person she thought i was. Theres a lot more to the story as to why she felt this way, but all our friends think its weird and cant understand why, because they said we were an amazing couple. I was her first ever boyfriend, we're both nearly 18, and we dated for 2 months. We had a really good start to the relationship,she said i was really sweet and we had some great times, and then she broke up with me out of the blue when i went to her house to talk to her about some little problems we were having. Although when she did break up with me, she cried and asked me to stay at her house just so we could talk as friends like we use to. Her best friend told me she didnt know if she had made the right descision, and she dumped me for being too clingy, but her best friend said her boyfriend was way more clingy than i was so it didnt really make sense. I askhed her if i could see her a few days after and she agreed, and i told her that i realised what i was doing wrong and was going to change it, and that i really cared about her and never meant to upset her in anyway but she just said that it couldnt happen and that we were better off like this. I was ready to move on, i got rid of all the stuff she gave me, and deleted all the texts, emails, messages and removed her from facebook. Her friend was shocked at this and said she really still wanted to be friends, and that she was all cut up over the break-up too and couldnt get me out of her head, which kind of gave me hope that we could fix things. Its been about 3 weeks since we really talked, and im seeing her in a few days for uni orientation. I really care about her and want to get back together, and show her that i dont have to have her around 24.7 like she thought i did, so should i just say something like i agree why we broke up and im starting to move on, and is this really what you want, can we not work it out, and if she committs to the break-up, shut her out of my life and forget about her? i was thinking of letting her come to me, and saying we should fix it, but i dont think it will happen, as she is really shy and we start uni in a few weeks so she'll probably just forget about me, please help!
GaelicSoul Posted February 20, 2011 Posted February 20, 2011 Listen man, you need to look after yourself now. 1. She left you. You owe her nothing 2. shes upset you removed her from facebook etc? Who cares she left you. 3. I know you care about her but be honest with yourself, you need to make yourself more confident, become less clingy and get out of the house. Realise the mistakes you made, learn from them.Go to the gym, hang out with your mates, get a few phone numbers from a few chicks. Start having fun. Your very young dude. If its meant to be she'll come back to you. But now you need to look after YOU!!!! Stop worrying about what she thinks.
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