saddestguynow Posted February 20, 2011 Posted February 20, 2011 Well what if there's someone u really love from your heart and you ask her out...but she rejects saying she just wants to be friends with you ?? And if you feel really deep for that girl and just want her happiness inspite of she rejecting and being your good friend ?? What is that feeling called if not one sided true love ?? Or maybe u feel it is the love of your life,but u have to let her go......?
P&R Posted February 20, 2011 Posted February 20, 2011 Well what if there's someone u really love from your heart and you ask her out...but she rejects saying she just wants to be friends with you ?? And if you feel really deep for that girl and just want her happiness inspite of she rejecting and being your good friend ?? What is that feeling called if not one sided true love ?? Or maybe u feel it is the love of your life,but u have to let her go......? unrequited love?
LeaningIntoTheMuse Posted February 20, 2011 Posted February 20, 2011 If this is true, then I've been in love many times. But I don't think it's real love.
runner Posted February 20, 2011 Posted February 20, 2011 unrequited love? also makes for a good search term. just sayin'
K.K. Posted February 20, 2011 Posted February 20, 2011 well i'm not sure but i guess true love would be when they love you back. it's unrequited love. like P&R said.
LostLamb Posted February 20, 2011 Posted February 20, 2011 Others will disagree but I think real love is reciprocated really. Anything else is obsession , a crush or unrequited,,surely? I could only be in love if it was reciprocated but maybe i'm being too narrow and there are 1000's of types of love..
runner Posted February 20, 2011 Posted February 20, 2011 peanut butter sucks yup, my thoughts exactly.
Jaytb Posted February 20, 2011 Posted February 20, 2011 " Do you think true love can be one sided ??" you can argue it is or it isn't, but it's just semantics, and probably different for the individual. I believe you're going to have to argue what "true love" is, and if it's one-sided, then couldn't that be considered stalking?
Mrlonelyone Posted February 20, 2011 Posted February 20, 2011 " Do you think true love can be one sided ??" you can argue it is or it isn't, but it's just semantics, and probably different for the individual. I believe you're going to have to argue what "true love" is, and if it's one-sided, then couldn't that be considered stalking? Stalking is an action not an emotion. Unrequited love is an emotion and like any emotion it happens within an individual. Love is also just an emotion, a chemical reaction within the brain of a person. This reaction may be more or less intense in a given person at any given time. Knowing this I think that unrequited "one sided" love is every bit as true as mutually felt love. I also think that true love, requited, or not can only really come after getting to know someone well. Thinking you love someone you barely know is more like obsession.
Author saddestguynow Posted February 21, 2011 Author Posted February 21, 2011 Stalking is an action not an emotion. Unrequited love is an emotion and like any emotion it happens within an individual. Love is also just an emotion, a chemical reaction within the brain of a person. This reaction may be more or less intense in a given person at any given time. Knowing this I think that unrequited "one sided" love is every bit as true as mutually felt love. I also think that true love, requited, or not can only really come after getting to know someone well. Thinking you love someone you barely know is more like obsession. I agree there but what if you know the person in and out ?? Like i know there are tons of bad qualities and i am not imagining her as my ohhh so perfect angel,but still i feel deep for her and even after being rejected for the only reason of religion(bull**** in an asian country) and then no contat from 3 weeks...I still have feelings for her...and still i care for her that ok if not me hopefully i pray that she will find a better and a caring person and she will be happy again.... Now are these feelings bound to remain with me for a lifetime ??? Will i ever not love again or love someone so deep again in my life ??
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