brokenangel26 Posted February 20, 2011 Posted February 20, 2011 it's so hard for me to accept that he is doing drugs and that he changed so much.i try to get closure but i can't.he says something today and the next day is completely different.i don't trust anything anymore.as i said in my other threads we still live together/same apt/ and 4 days out of seven he is high.how do i deal? i am very private i don't talk about this with people and my close friends don't know what to say any more.i got some good advices here..but u know when i go home it's kinda hard to keep them in mind.i feel really lonely.
imyuinny Posted February 20, 2011 Posted February 20, 2011 I had a friend who ended a 10 year relationship but was still living together. It was hard for both of them... but there were no drugs involved. So here is what they did... they both agreed to stay apart for 1-2 weeks (1 lived in a best friend's house) and the other stayed at home, after that they talk and settle things. It seemed to work for them. A very peaceful and understanding breakup. It's the best breakup I've heard and their still close friends. Ya I wonder why sometimes... Anyhow... the point is you need to get out of there, and staying with your close friend is the best because you can start re-building bits and pieces of yourself from there with a friend. I guess from there you would at least maybe know what you need to do.
Author brokenangel26 Posted February 20, 2011 Author Posted February 20, 2011 hard to do that i can't pay rent in 2 places and i would feel bad just to crush...we try not to fight but when i see him i am very angry because he does not stop using already.today i feel better i am ignoring him for the last 3 days and just in my own little world...
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