montana15 Posted February 20, 2011 Posted February 20, 2011 Girl one, met on facebook, got number Talked to her via text one day average length convo Talked via text four days later, another average length convo Again via text four days after convo #2, convo went very well and was pretty long About three days later, i felt comfortable enough to ask her to call her the next time, however i didn't really get to talk to her long enough to ask. The convo started dull, and didn't really advance that far. I wasn't feeling it, so just said happy vallentines day and let the convo end. That was about 5 days ago, and now i feel like i'm back at square one. My conciouss is telling me to try to start up another text convo with her, and if this one goes well, ask to call next time. Yet another part is saying, 'she's not interested, if she was, she would have tried contacting you, afterall, its been 5 days soon to be 6'. Now girl two, met at a house party, already had number, but i became interested in her again. Texted her, convo wen't decent, average length. four days later, texted her again convo went very well, altough a little on the short side. Felt comfortable enough to ask if i could call next time, and she said 'that would be nice'. texted her a little more after that, end of convo. That was on a monday On thursday i called her, but she didn't pick up. Now i tried getting with this girl like 7 months ago, and felt i was texting her to often (like every other day) so the first time she just didn't reply, i stoped talking to her all together. So this time, i really don't want to over crowd her. I felt a connection, and i would like to talk to her, however, do you think i should move on? I meen i only tried calling once, and she didn't awnser, so no big deal. That was thursday, it is now saturday. I'm thinking of maybe trying to call or text again tommorow. I didn't leave a message, but still, in my mind she should have called or texted back when she saw a missed call from me. My problem is, i have a habbit of moving on as soon as i feel i'm starting to drop the ball with a girl. Which has cost me in the past. Where the girls still liked me, but because they made no attempt to contact me first or didn't pick up the phone the first time i called, i drop them. In the past i had the habbit of smothering girls, so now i feel like i over compensate by compltley dropping them for sometimes silly reasons.
Author montana15 Posted February 20, 2011 Author Posted February 20, 2011 sorry if i might come across as a prick or something in my main post.
glimmer Posted February 20, 2011 Posted February 20, 2011 Call back and leave a nice message if she doesn't pick up.
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