List Posted March 27, 2004 Posted March 27, 2004 Situtation. Dated for 1 1/2 years when we decided to move in together. For six months everything was fine, afterwards however finacial and other problems lead to us distancing each other. I personnally questioned whether she was right for me many times during this period however i had a respect and certainly very sincere affection for her. I resented the problems created by living together (which was done too early i feel, but her circumstances forced it). However i had worked through this recently and i know that i am deeply in love with her. At This point she still loved me very much and we agreed in order to save for a place together we should move back in with our parents in order to save enough money to buy a home together. Unfortunately the gap between us never really closed. i was beginning to think that things were getting better then she out-of the-blue said she though it would be better if we separated. She says that she loves me but is no longer in love with me. I accept that i am a big part of the problem. Bizarrely after the break-up we have been comforting each other (tbh, shes been comforting me more than the other way round). She says she thinks we'll get back together eventually but at the moment wants to be friends. Occasionally, i know she still really loves me. However i feel as though i'm stuck in limbo and its eating me up.
kgal Posted March 27, 2004 Posted March 27, 2004 Limbo is a hard place to be. Most definitely! You'll get through it though.. just have faith and remember that no matter what the end result is.. you deserve someone who loves you completely and totally.. and that you love back the same way... cuz that's the only way things will work out and both ppl can truly be happy together. I would just hang in there though.. you've gotta stay strong. Good Luck!
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