motherlover Posted February 19, 2011 Posted February 19, 2011 I'm sure this thread is asking to be flamed. but let me start out by sharing the situation. I met a girl in school back in September, i sat right next to her and talked to her everyday, i started developing feelings for her, and asked if she would like to study sometime and if i could get her number. she said yes before i could finish the sentnce. She text me the next night saying she had seen my car at my friends house. i asked what she was doing down this way. she responded with "just going to my BF's house" i responded with "oh i was under the impression you didn't have a bf since you wanted to study. she said, she had no intentions of anything other than studying. I kinda turned into a hater, and stopped texting her, and gave her a bit of a cold shoulder for awhile at school, but i got over it and we had started talking alot, and actually became good friends, this went on 3 months, and those strong feeling came back again. we texted alot, and one night we were texting for like 2 hours, and i finshed with.. me: So are you 100000%sure you have a bf? her: pretty sure lol why? me: are you guys pretty serious? her: no not really, just dating.. me: well i will respect your relationship so i will try my hardest not to flirt with you, but if/when it doesn't work out, lmk.. her: oh i definitely will! we all have a different outlook on moral ethics, and if she were to say that "yes the relationship is serious, i would have never flirted with her again, and let her be. but the fact that she says it's not serious, and that they are just dating, i feel personally that it's ok to try to move in on this. But what if he is serious with her? i have looked at it from this stand point as well. and this same scenerio has happened to me, i liked a girl way more than she liked me, and some guy stole her from me, at first a hated the guy and wanted to kick some ass, but when i calmed down and came to my senses, i realized it was for the best rather than being with someone who didn't feel the same for me, that would just be wasting both of our time. I do feel very strong for this girl, and have actually never felt this kind of puppy love before. I am actually excited to go school just to see this girl. anyway, it's now almost march, and she is still with him, but she has told me she likes me. and she is a good girl that would not cheat, nor would I, i wouldn't even kiss her until they broke up. she promises i will have my chance one day, and to be patient. and she says she wont break up with her bf cause he treats he good, and says they have been going out for to long to dump him without a good reason. I can be patient, but they have been going out for 10months, and that scares me. i feel it can only get more serious between them. and if it is still not serious, then don't you guys think that should be reason enough to break up? the fact that there 10months deep into a relationship but it's not serious?? any ideas how i can make this girl mine?
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