TheTurtl3 Posted February 19, 2011 Posted February 19, 2011 so, its 4:00 am, and gf just broke up with me :/ we were together for just over a year, both 20 years old. AWESOME relationship the whole way though, no more of that high school drama, 2 weeks of dating b/s. My first REAL relationship. had maybe 1 or 2 little disagreements throughout our year together, but mostly smiles, hearts, butterflies, or what have you. we had an awesome time together whatever we did, we frequented disneyland once or twice a month together. anyway, to the matter of the breakup, she says her life is too complicated, that if she cannot make herself happy, that she cannot devote herself to making someone else happy. I believe i truely love this girl, shes given me the best year of my life as of yet, ive experienced so much with her, and i really dont want to let her go :/ i do know the complicated part is not b/s. she lives with a low income family, in a bad neighborhood, numerous siblings, no job at the moment. of course, me being "in love" and all, i followed her breakup messages with a swarm of "OMG PLZ DONT GO!" texts........ *slaps forehead* idk right now....idk, this forum really helped with my last breakup, i guess im just looking for either words of advice....tips.....or anyone willing to lend an ear :/
Author TheTurtl3 Posted February 19, 2011 Author Posted February 19, 2011 anyone? :/ i have to work from 10:00 - 7:00 today, and id rather have even 1 or 2 little clips of advice on my head rather than all the memories >.< anything will help
Chi townD Posted February 19, 2011 Posted February 19, 2011 IDK, something had to have happened for her to make such a dramatic shift. I would just give her space. Don't contact her. She might end up missing you and I have a feeling she will be contacting you, especially if she hasn't heard from you. By the way, if she does contact you don't fall for that, "Let's be friends" crap.
fiat500 Posted February 19, 2011 Posted February 19, 2011 The Turtl3, you are both still young and most women that you run into will be fickle. The best thing you can do when someone pulls away and tells you they can't do it anymore is to disappear and not talk to them anymore even though it hurts.
ZachNormand Posted February 19, 2011 Posted February 19, 2011 To start with, maybe you could talk with her and get to know the actual reasons. Only then that you will be able to take better decisions. Also, don't feel depressed. You are still young, you have many better years than this to live in your life.
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