Avaa Posted February 18, 2011 Posted February 18, 2011 This guy told me yesterday that he had a crush on another girl. Before he told me, he made me guess I gave up so he he said it... THEN...he asked me if I was okay with it. I said yes. He asked if I was sure because I gave him a dirty look. Here's the thing: He used to like. Or possibly still does. Why would he seek my approval? I rejected him last year and all he constantly does is talk about other girls whenever he gets a chance in front of me.
nwsingleguy Posted February 18, 2011 Posted February 18, 2011 How old are the two of you? If you are relatively young, I can tell you that he still has a thing for you and is trying to make you jealous. He may not even realize that is what he is doing...but I remember from me and my friends in our younger days and I remember a lot of situations similar to what you are describing.
nwsingleguy Posted February 18, 2011 Posted February 18, 2011 Also...If you are into him now you should probably just throw it out there. I think he is kind of feeling you out by seeking your approval, but he will probably never be straight up and ask you out since you rejected him in the past.
Author Avaa Posted February 18, 2011 Author Posted February 18, 2011 How old are the two of you? If you are relatively young, I can tell you that he still has a thing for you and is trying to make you jealous. He may not even realize that is what he is doing...but I remember from me and my friends in our younger days and I remember a lot of situations similar to what you are describing. I am 19. He is 24. Well, I think when he asked me if it was okay was to see if I cared enough to get mad because he might suspect I have feelings for him. My reaction was obviously very calm.
Author Avaa Posted February 18, 2011 Author Posted February 18, 2011 Also...If you are into him now you should probably just throw it out there. I think he is kind of feeling you out by seeking your approval, but he will probably never be straight up and ask you out since you rejected him in the past. What do you mean feeling me out for approval? As you can tell I haven't had a whole lot of experience so this is relatively new to me.
nwsingleguy Posted February 18, 2011 Posted February 18, 2011 what I mean is that I think he is probably still into you and is feeling out your reaction. The only other explanation is that you know the girl better than he does and he is hoping you will help him make it happen. If you rejected him in the past there is really no reason for him to seek your approval to go after her other than gaging your reaction to see if it makes you a little jealous.
Author Avaa Posted February 18, 2011 Author Posted February 18, 2011 what I mean is that I think he is probably still into you and is feeling out your reaction. The only other explanation is that you know the girl better than he does and he is hoping you will help him make it happen. If you rejected him in the past there is really no reason for him to seek your approval to go after her other than gaging your reaction to see if it makes you a little jealous. You're right..especially since he knows it bugs me when the guy I like see's other people.
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