scott123 Posted February 18, 2011 Posted February 18, 2011 Hello LoveShack, I have been with this girl for 2 years now and she tells me she don't feel the same anymore. It sucks because she had her space and I didn't see her for a long time, and now I find I don't feel that same spark for her. I love her very much, but I guess I'm still a bit torn because of what she said. It's like I'm paranoid / find it hard to trust her. I don't know what to do. Is this a normal reaction?
seibert253 Posted February 18, 2011 Posted February 18, 2011 You don't feel the same for her, and neither does she for you. Simple, seperate, break up, take a break, whatever you wish to call it. If you truly love each other, eventually you will want to get back together. If you don't, you will grow apart and move on. Not a hard concept really, but implementing it is the hard part.
nwsingleguy Posted February 18, 2011 Posted February 18, 2011 It is a very normal reaction. Break ups are always hard. I know it is never easy but it is better now than down the road. Look at it this way, if you stayed together long term and this happened years down the road, you could be dealing with going through a divorce...which is like a break up on steroids. My advice, take some time apart. Spend as much time as you can with friends, family and positive influences in your life. Find something you have put off for a long time but have wanted to do and put some of your energy into it. Don't try to be friends right away, that always has disasterous consequences. After some time apart you could possibly be friends but in the short term it will just lead to one of you feeling jealous or angry at each other. Take a little bit of a break from dating even if she doesn't. You will truly thank yourself later.
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Author scott123 Posted February 18, 2011 Author Posted February 18, 2011 It sucks so much. She still loves me and I still love her. I can't sleep, eat, or do anything. We try to work things out but I still feel like I don't see her enough. It seems like all her time is devoted to her friends and they go out partying a lot. I worry that she's going to find someone else. Then I get upset with her about going out so much to clubs when things are shaky and I cause a vicious cycle all over again. I don't want to lose her.
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