Your Favourite Smile Posted February 18, 2011 Posted February 18, 2011 I cant cope at the moment, because late last year up until early this month I had been trying to rebuild something with an ex. Silly me? I have only just recently found out he had presents prepared for someone around Valentines day... It was going good for me, I had been messaging him about a good way around meeting up and getting to know one another properly.. taking things slow.. After this pretty hopeful conversation, he became off with me and didnt contact for around a week. I then found out about this Valentines thing from a close friend who is involved with one of his friends who lives with him. I immediately cut contact.. Ive deleted him so i cannot read or see anything that would hurt me, and ive removed him from my phone. Its not enough.. but it has had to happen. What im most baffled about is how genuine he was earlier in the year about making plans. He was the person I had liked, I saw what he had in him and felt he was going to bring this out of himself. But he hasnt.. and i feel like a fool I still dont understand this sudden distancing he made from me. I wont be confronting him about it either, ive come to the conclusion he has opted to be that person who expects thing to come easily and instantly. (hence the new person) I dont know... I have a habit of trying to guess at whats happening.
silvermane187 Posted February 18, 2011 Posted February 18, 2011 Everybody is fool for love. Try not to beat yourself up. Replace any anger at yourself with resentment for him. At least that's how I'm coping at the moment after a similar situation.
Author Your Favourite Smile Posted February 19, 2011 Author Posted February 19, 2011 The frustration im having is where half of me would love him to come crawling back so that i can give him a piece of my mind. The other half of me realises that he doesnt deserve my words and must learn all by himself what an idiot he has been. I know that im a stronger person than he is, but I always need that reminder to keep myself sane
silvermane187 Posted March 1, 2011 Posted March 1, 2011 The frustration im having is where half of me would love him to come crawling back so that i can give him a piece of my mind. The other half of me realises that he doesnt deserve my words and must learn all by himself what an idiot he has been. I know that im a stronger person than he is, but I always need that reminder to keep myself sane I feel the exact same way. I'm not sure what I would do if she tried to contact me now. Hearing how hard of a time she had with the berak up after dumping me should make me feel better but it only pisses me off more. The sad fact is they are probably never coming back so you have to try not to think about it. Impossible, I know...
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