Tofu Posted February 17, 2011 Posted February 17, 2011 (edited) Surprisingly I wasnt heartbroken seeing this guy who had a thing with her for so long seducing her away from me and now shes finally with him. When i read the lovey dovey message on her facebook i just thought laughed out loud that i was right all along, it wasnt the distance, it was this guy, it felt good to hav guessed it right. Now ive deleted her from my friends list and nvr looking back, i feel so strange right now that i got a mix of emotions but mainly dissapointment that i was stuck with this liar of an ex for so long and she still had the selfish guts to ask if we could still be friends? hilarious. Right now ive deleted her off everything except my phone, which i will do right after you guys answer me this question. Would it be right for me to vent my rage on her now and text how im not surprised by something like that? I dont feel myself right now but a sane answer from you guys would stop me from doing something stupid thx Edited February 17, 2011 by Tofu
joshislost Posted February 17, 2011 Posted February 17, 2011 Surprisingly I wasnt heartbroken seeing this guy who had a thing with her for so long seducing her away from me and now shes finally with him. When i read the lovey dovey message on her facebook i just thought laughed out loud that i was right all along, it wasnt the distance, it was this guy, it felt good to hav guessed it right. Now ive deleted her from my friends list and nvr looking back, i feel so strange right now that i got a mix of emotions but mainly dissapointment that i was stuck with this liar of an ex for so long and she still had the selfish guts to ask if we could still be friends? hilarious. Right now ive deleted her off everything except my phone, which i will do right after you guys answer me this question. Would it be right for me to vent my rage on her now and text how im not surprised by something like that? I dont feel myself right now but a sane answer from you guys would stop me from doing something stupid thx Were you really surprised, you called it. My opinion would be don't give her the satisfaction knowing that you are pissed at her. It will only show that you still care and that you haven't gotten over her. Don't give her that satisfaction.
Author Tofu Posted February 17, 2011 Author Posted February 17, 2011 Were you really surprised, you called it. My opinion would be don't give her the satisfaction knowing that you are pissed at her. It will only show that you still care and that you haven't gotten over her. Don't give her that satisfaction. wise words indeed, im talking to a couple of my mates now and theyre supportive words are keeping me back. but you are v correct, why waste credit and text on a little liar like her... to think i trusted her for 8months straight and she could do this to me and then ask to be friends. she is everything i hate put into physical form now, i cant believe i was even moping around these past few days wanting to get bk with her... god i feel so stupid i wasted time on her. shes forever out of my life now and i couldnt be happier.
joshislost Posted February 18, 2011 Posted February 18, 2011 That's the spirit bud! I also trusted my ex even thou she was lying in my face, I was just stupid and blinded by the love, or what I thought was love. Asking you to be her friend is the best of both worlds for her. No way, she don't deserve your friendship. She straight up lied to you. I'm sorry bud for what happened, but im starting to learn that time heals all.
xpaperxcutx Posted February 18, 2011 Posted February 18, 2011 Personally, I'm a vindictive person. If I were you, I wouldn't have deleted her off FB, instead, when I get into another relationship so I would use my new gf as leverage to make her jealous. But whatever, karma will bite her in the ass.
Author Tofu Posted February 18, 2011 Author Posted February 18, 2011 Thanks for the supportive words lads, it means alot to me. Yeh time sure does, thats wat everyones said and i feel so much more satisfied now that i wont need to worry over an worthless whore like her ever again. Papercut lol, i would so do that but the problem is her face keeps popping up on my profile friends list and just looking at her makes me want to puke everytime. save myself further nausea by deleting her, to be honest i dont care how she reacts to that, she means nothing to me now.
Coolsbreeze Posted February 18, 2011 Posted February 18, 2011 Surprisingly I wasnt heartbroken seeing this guy who had a thing with her for so long seducing her away from me and now shes finally with him. When i read the lovey dovey message on her facebook i just thought laughed out loud that i was right all along, it wasnt the distance, it was this guy, it felt good to hav guessed it right. Now ive deleted her from my friends list and nvr looking back, i feel so strange right now that i got a mix of emotions but mainly dissapointment that i was stuck with this liar of an ex for so long and she still had the selfish guts to ask if we could still be friends? hilarious. Right now ive deleted her off everything except my phone, which i will do right after you guys answer me this question. Would it be right for me to vent my rage on her now and text how im not surprised by something like that? I dont feel myself right now but a sane answer from you guys would stop me from doing something stupid thx Tofu I know exactly how you feel, my ex hooked up with another guy only a week after ending things with me. She met him while still being with me, and from i'm guessing he slowly weaseled his way into her life and into her heart. But whatever if that's how he lives his life then I can already say for certain that I'm the better person when comparing to him. And there were plenty of opportunities I gave her to tell me the truth too. When we broke up I asked her if she had feelings for another guy. And she told me no, but there's no way in hell that she didn't have feelings for this guy. Her actions blatantly say that she wanted him over me. My heart was literally broken, and i'm still sad over this whole situation even 5 months later. I'm mostly sad and disappointed over the fact that i gave her my heart and she betrayed me. It was a little crazy to me that only after 2 weeks they were together they started saying how much they loved each other and posted pics of them together. My best advice would be to block her completely on facebook, trust me it will help you in the longrun.
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