Movingthrough Posted February 17, 2011 Posted February 17, 2011 Hey everyone, Well im trying to get away from the breakup section of the site and start working on what i look for, what i have had, and what i can do to make it better for the next time. In my life i have had 4 serious relationships, dated in between but 4 serious ones. 2 of them actually "messed" me up and were the hardest when they ended. The last one is what landed me on this site. When i look back, these two have the same qualities, the first one was in highschool so i didnt really count it as much, but the last one has a lot in common which is why im posting this. What i have found with these two is they move in fast and move on fast. After us breaking up both were right into serious relationships, almost as if they have no feelings or dont want to feel, and move into something just to run from their issues. Both had problems growing up, more of a lack of attention and were very much the ugly ducklings as far as looks. As time went on they became really attractive and things changed. For some reason, this "fire" this moving fast into love with them, their attractiveness, has always just been a turn on for me, but in the back of my head i know it wont last, they have too much baggage. For an example, my latest ex was in a relationship days after me and literally is showing the world. Online her page is full of hundreds of pictures of how much in "love" she is, and profile pics are changed probably once a day. The ex i had from highschool was dating an old friend recently, broke it off, and within a week was engaged to someone else, where she is also showing the world how in "love" she is. The funny thing is, my recent ex is very much the tough girl in person, you would never think she was like that with pictures and "love". Its very weird because her backround is she shows the world through the internet how "happy" she is, yet none of her relationships have worked and she actually cheated on her ex husband more then once. My question is (and maybe its more for females) what do these things say to you.....what do you think is wrong with these girls? I dont mean that in a mean sexist way, but knowing what their issue could stem from can help me with mine... Thanks everyone!
Untouchable_Fire Posted February 17, 2011 Posted February 17, 2011 = My question is (and maybe its more for females) what do these things say to you.....what do you think is wrong with these girls? I dont mean that in a mean sexist way, but knowing what their issue could stem from can help me with mine.. Thanks everyone! Dunno... they kind of sound normal to me. I see women like that all the time. Crap... this girl broke up with my friend and spent 2 months talking about getting back together with him. Only to find 3 weeks ago that she was already dating another guy from 1 week after the breakup. Luckily there are plenty of women not like that... unfortunately they are the minority.
Author Movingthrough Posted February 17, 2011 Author Posted February 17, 2011 Dunno... they kind of sound normal to me. I see women like that all the time. Crap... this girl broke up with my friend and spent 2 months talking about getting back together with him. Only to find 3 weeks ago that she was already dating another guy from 1 week after the breakup. Luckily there are plenty of women not like that... unfortunately they are the minority. Yeah...i know girls say the same about us but lately i have found it more common for these things to happen. Right after the stuff with my ex happened my buddy met a girl, they were perfect, she went on to tell him how great he was, she was falling for him etc etc. Two weeks later she was gone and said that they basically werent going to work, he is sitting there dumbfounded because she was the one that pushed it. I have done that to girls, so guys are innocent in this, i think we try so hard to make things work (when we know there are problems) and then it just falls out from under us. Making it look like we were in love then fell out, when in reality it was never good from the beginning.
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