kurofox Posted February 17, 2011 Posted February 17, 2011 Any hairstylists in here that usually get hit on by there clients? Is it weird to go out with them? I really like this girl that cuts my hair and ive been trying to find a way to ask her out. We have had some pretty awesome conversations whiles shes cutting my hair and we laugh a lot. I cant really tell if shes into me but i think she knows i like her. Ive had two appointments with her and seriously cant stop thinking about her. Last time we had a mini conversation about movies and i asked her out to one and she said that she had to work till late and for some reason i froze and didn't follow up with like "Maybe another time" or something. I kinda get the feeling she likes me too but she just could be that way with everyone... I have another appointment coming up soon what should i do? I almost went back the next day to ask her out but I thought that would be kinda weird...
ShatteredReality Posted February 17, 2011 Posted February 17, 2011 Well you can always say something cliche like - wanna grab a coffee after work? Or something...I mean if you like her, ask her out. Do it after she's done with your hair though, that way if you offend her she doesn't mess up your hair and if you get too embarrassed you can go somewhere else in the future. In general I say just ask, though, the worst case scenario is she says no...and then you won't go out with her...which you aren't right now...so that won't change.
xpaperxcutx Posted February 17, 2011 Posted February 17, 2011 You know how they say " Don't sh-t where you eat", I guess this is where you don't play where you're getting serviced. Worst case scenario, you never go back there to get your hair trimmed.
alphamale Posted February 17, 2011 Posted February 17, 2011 I kinda get the feeling she likes me too... i highly doubt it
ShatteredReality Posted February 17, 2011 Posted February 17, 2011 your stupid If you plan to insult someone...best to use proper grammar...you're is you are while your is ownership...thus illustrating your stupidity. Papercut is right...worst case scenario - OP doesn't return there - what's the harm in taking a chance?
Author kurofox Posted February 18, 2011 Author Posted February 18, 2011 (edited) i highly doubt it And you say this why? I dont really care what you think or not. My opinion is she does. Either way I still plan on asking. I just wanted advice on HOW to ask. Should i just go a week or two before my haircut and just flat out ask her out? should i wait untill my appointment in 3 weeks and ask her out then? Maybe just ask for a facebook? I keep getting told different things and its messing me up....It was kinda awkward because i kind of asked her out on valentines day before ( thats when i had my appointment ), and that was a mess on its own. Edited February 18, 2011 by kurofox
nwsingleguy Posted February 18, 2011 Posted February 18, 2011 Do it after she cuts your hair. Have you discussed any common interests? The coolest way you could ask her out is bring up something you both like and ask her if she would like to join you. One of my best ever date situations was with a girl I met after I moved to a new city. We talked about art and she told me how great the art museum was. Next time I saw her I told her I was going to the Art museum on Sunday afternoon and asked her if she would like to join me. Find something like this for you and her. Something you are going to do regardless (makes it less awkward if she says no). If she legit. cant make it, she will offer another alternative.
Author kurofox Posted February 18, 2011 Author Posted February 18, 2011 Do it after she cuts your hair. Have you discussed any common interests? The coolest way you could ask her out is bring up something you both like and ask her if she would like to join you. One of my best ever date situations was with a girl I met after I moved to a new city. We talked about art and she told me how great the art museum was. Next time I saw her I told her I was going to the Art museum on Sunday afternoon and asked her if she would like to join me. Find something like this for you and her. Something you are going to do regardless (makes it less awkward if she says no). If she legit. cant make it, she will offer another alternative. I kinda sorta did that with the movies thing. We got into the topic of movies and asked her out that night ( should have asked over the weekend...) but we kept going back to the subject maybe she wanted me to ask her out over the weekend.... damit i hate making decisions i regret. Thanks for your opinion
Feelin Frisky Posted February 18, 2011 Posted February 18, 2011 Any hairstylists in here that usually get hit on by there clients? Is it weird to go out with them? I really like this girl that cuts my hair and ive been trying to find a way to ask her out. We have had some pretty awesome conversations whiles shes cutting my hair and we laugh a lot. I cant really tell if shes into me but i think she knows i like her. Ive had two appointments with her and seriously cant stop thinking about her. Last time we had a mini conversation about movies and i asked her out to one and she said that she had to work till late and for some reason i froze and didn't follow up with like "Maybe another time" or something. I kinda get the feeling she likes me too but she just could be that way with everyone... I have another appointment coming up soon what should i do? I almost went back the next day to ask her out but I thought that would be kinda weird... I know exactly how you feel. I've had this happen a few times. I wound up not trying. There's no reason to it, I just didn't pull the trigger. It's only one of them that I really have second thoughts about. But I asked myself at the time how many guys she must do hair cuts for and she just has a nice personality that she shows. I didn't get the sense that she wanted me to hit on her. Her stomach sometimes growled when she cut my hair--I should have taken that as an opportunity to ask her at least to lunch. But I punked out. Another one used to cut my hair in a shop that was on the 16th floor of 2 Broadway in lower Manhattan. She was really hot. One day I was standing in the lobby with my jealous girl friend probably working out one of our many snits and my barber comes in to the lobby. I had never seen her in street clothes and she was turning heads. She smiled and waved to me. I didn't know who she was. Then she made like a scissor sign with her fingers in her hair to remind me that she was my stylist. Then I got it and smiled and waved back. Naturally my g/f wanted to know what was up with that. I actually was glad that stylist flirted with me even though she knew what she was doing razzing my g/f. It doesn't hurt to make you g/f a little jealous sometimes. I never asked my stylist out though--not my type really, too edgy with the looks and showy. Good luck. Chat her up and steer things toward relationship talk and see if she volunteers anything. You could say something like "I bet your husband orr b/f is proud of your work". If she says I don't have one, then you got a cue.
nwsingleguy Posted February 18, 2011 Posted February 18, 2011 What was her exact reaction when you asked her to see a movie. Usually if she is interested she will say I can't tonight but I would really love to sometime soon. If she just said she couldn't and didn't show interst in doing it in the future than she is just working you for tips. It sucks, I know..but when it comes to a first date, girls will always through out a no...but if they want to do it.
Author kurofox Posted February 18, 2011 Author Posted February 18, 2011 @frisky: You know weve actually talked about her other clients and the awkward moments she gets from most of them, and how she hates cutting hair in silence and last time she brought me a peanut butter cup. @NW: The way it went down was we got into the topic of what we had done the previous weekends since we hadn't seen each other in a month. I asked if she had a boyfriend and she said no. We started talking about movies then and talked about the dilemma and no strings attached. I said hey im not doing anything tonight wanna go see it later? Her reaction was, from what i can remember, " Aww i would but i have to work till 10:30 tonight " then she changed the subject back to hair, then later we came across the movie subject again ( talking about what they were about). its weird how i didn't jump on all those chances.... Im not usually like that. I think it shows how much i really like her. That and ive never asked out someone like this before. ( Like this being at work surrounded by all her co workers and such )
nwsingleguy Posted February 18, 2011 Posted February 18, 2011 Next time you see her you should have some type of activity you and some friends are doing. Tell her about it and see if she wants to come along. gauge her reaction, if she seems to be making up an excuse and doesn't say I can't but we should do _______, forget about her. If she says yes, play it cool and put the moves on her if she shows up (before your buddies do), if she says no but offers an alternative option...go for it and see where it goes. If she says no and changes the subject you have to just accept she isn't into you and is being polite. If in two chances she doesn't create an opportunity, you need to put 2 and 2 together. Good news is, it's a no lose situation for you, if she says no and doesn't offer an alternative you just play it off like you thought she may enjoy it and were just being polite to give her the opportunity to have fun and meet new people.
Author kurofox Posted February 18, 2011 Author Posted February 18, 2011 Next time you see her you should have some type of activity you and some friends are doing. Tell her about it and see if she wants to come along. gauge her reaction, if she seems to be making up an excuse and doesn't say I can't but we should do _______, forget about her. If she says yes, play it cool and put the moves on her if she shows up (before your buddies do), if she says no but offers an alternative option...go for it and see where it goes. If she says no and changes the subject you have to just accept she isn't into you and is being polite. If in two chances she doesn't create an opportunity, you need to put 2 and 2 together. Good news is, it's a no lose situation for you, if she says no and doesn't offer an alternative you just play it off like you thought she may enjoy it and were just being polite to give her the opportunity to have fun and meet new people. So your saying do this after the cut right? Not during. Honestly ill probably do this during the cut and if all fails. When were done ill flat out ask her out/number/or facebook. If she says no, guess ill have to find a new place to get my haircut With all these ideas though it shouldn't have to come to that! Plans never go the way you want though... Were supposed to show up next time and only talk in British accents... that will make things a bit harder.
nwsingleguy Posted February 18, 2011 Posted February 18, 2011 Yeah, after the cut. Have a plan if you are going to invite her to do something with you and your friends. Something fun that no reasonable person would say no to. That part is easy....your just a fun guy that is inviting her into your fun world. she either says yes or offers an alternative. Play it cool and you wont even have to get a new person to cut your hair. Don't even push it if she says no and doesn't offer an alternative. Interested girls will always offer an alternative if they have to say no.
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