Silver Arrow Posted February 17, 2011 Posted February 17, 2011 Long story short, met a girl in Uni during the first week in a club. Flirted a LOT, danced to the point we were practically f*kin on the dancefloor. We were SO comfortable with each other it was unbelievable. I told her i liked her when we were both drunk during the final week of last year and she said we're just friends. She still continues to flirt. I Sent her a Valentine's card and she hasn't replied or said thank you or anything so far. I left my initials so i'm pretty sure she knows that it was me who sent it. Bumped into her a few times and smiled, but i'm now VERY nervous around her. Like seriously i feel like dying whenever i see her. I saw some guy giving her a hug yesterday and i felt really bad and weak inside. I wanted to die. What should i do now? Should i text her or facebook her about the card? We live pretty close to each other (same floor actually) HELP I'm torturing myself. It's worse as my SSRI's aren't working and anxiety is high atm. Am i torturing myself or is there a reason for her not replying yet? Does she even care?
whichwayisup Posted February 17, 2011 Posted February 17, 2011 and she said we're just friends. Sorry, but she thinks of you as a friend. It's nice you sent her a card and it's rude of her not to atleast thank you for the card..but, my guess is, she doesn't know how to respond now, thinks you're into her and she's not into you, she doesn't want to tell you directly she's not interested so she's chosen to do nothing and ignore. Try not to let this set your anxiety off.. Just act like you never sent the card, and if she says something, just say you're welcome!
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