billy42515 Posted February 17, 2011 Posted February 17, 2011 This is another chapter in a worthless marriage. I know its time to end it.She talks about the near future of family vacations and additions to the house (she won't call it our home). She gave me a blank generic valentines card which is more than I got last year which was nothing. I post encouraging comments about her on my Facebook page to send to other people no comments from her. We go to places together and she interacts with others but I don't exist. Sad. My fear as it is for most is there hope for a 52 year old man kinda dumpy and bald to ever love for real. I have a great job, nice home I am not wife beater, alcoholic or drug user. To be honest I'm not sure I have enough left in the emotion bank to do it again.
Bluebelle38 Posted February 17, 2011 Posted February 17, 2011 You're 52 not 92. You're self esteem is at rock bottome because you have effectively been ignored. No-one can tell you waht to do, but if I were you, I'd take the opportunity to leave NOW. Get yourself to the gym so that you feel better about yourself and start eating better. Your life isnt going to miraculously get better unless you do something about it. Life is for living, not existing. Sounds as if she mentally checked a whule ago... take the hint and make the break and build a new, happier life for yourself. You may not find a new partner for a while, but hell, it's better to be single and happy than treated like a piece of sh/t.
Linda9999 Posted February 17, 2011 Posted February 17, 2011 You sound so sad. Take heart though - you're young and there are many women out there your age who are looking for someone just like you. Besides, like the pp says, have fun being single for a while - it may just agree with you better than you think
Author billy42515 Posted February 17, 2011 Author Posted February 17, 2011 Yes, Your right been sad for quite some time. Married late in life thinking that was the way to go. Had 2 boys after I turned 40 and they think i'm ok as a dad. My wife checked out along time ago and I have done all I can do to keep it together but she will always be selfish and talk crap about me to her friends. Did you notice her friends not our friends. So any way when they say it is better to love and lost that to not love at all is BS.
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