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waynebrady Established Member

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I've seen it many times. If a man(like myself) says he doesn't want to do all the work and put in all the effort then he gets accused of either being a troll or a misogynist.

 

Too me it seems that women basicly want their man to put them on a pedestal and more or less worship them, and any man who doesn't want to do that hates women. Have I understod it right here or have I gotten it all wrong?

 

Because I read threads were women get so over-sensetive and imiedietly accuses me of hating women if I question why the man always have to do all the work.

 

I question why things are a one way street and then boom... misogynist, troll, women hater, i should be banned, i have no right to even question that, im bitter, will never get a girlfriend, im a horrible man, etc etc :laugh:

bayouboi Established Member

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Wait I thought putting them on a pedestal meant you're a wimp and that was also cause for rejection. Sounds liked you're fooked no matter what!

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That doesn't make you a misogynist. Misogyny is when you hate women, not when you worship them...?

 

You really confuse me, OP.

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waynebrady Established Member

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Wait I thought putting them on a pedestal meant you're a wimp and that was also cause for rejection. Sounds liked you're fooked no matter what!

 

Yeah, I think alot of women would rather be worshipped and put on a pedestal by a so called wimp than actually have a strong, self respecting man.

 

Ok, maybe not the majority of women want that... But seeing as women on here throw all kinds accusations at me if I even question the fact that the man puts in all the effort, there must be a significant amount of women atleast who are like that.

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That doesn't make you a misogynist. Misogyny is when you hate women, not when you worship them...?

 

You really confuse me, OP.

 

Eh? I know very well what misogyny is. Women seem to think that if the man doesn't worship and put the woman on a pedestal then he hates women.

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Have I understod it right here or have I gotten it all wrong?

 

Take a guess. :laugh:

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Oh Christ!

 

Is it any wonder that Wayne hasn't been on a date even? That attitude is really unhealthy.

 

At least I can blame my datelessness on Social Anxiety. He has to blame women for it. Classy. ;)

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waynebrady Established Member

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Oh Christ!

 

Is it any wonder that Wayne hasn't been on a date even? That attitude is really unhealthy.

 

At least I can blame my datelessness on Social Anxiety. He has to blame women for it. Classy. ;)

 

I haven't even asked a woman out yet, so no not really :)

 

My attitude? I don't like princessy women who wants the man to do all the work and put her on a pedestal... That's an unhealthy attitude?

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This is the exact thing I'm talking about. I question why the man has to do all the work and put in all the effort and constantly put the woman on a pedestal.... And people post like thats completley normal and it's even like they think thats the way it should be.

 

I want a normal, down to earth woman who doesn't act like a princess. And I'd be more than happy to be a gentleman in every sense of the word for a woman like that.... That is my attitude.

 

YOUR attitude is that the man must put in all the effort, the man must do all the giving without getting anything back, the man must worship the woman and put her on a pedestal. Again thats your attitude and you have the nerve to say my attitude is unhealthy?

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I dont' think your a troll or hate women Wayne. I think you have been going after the wrong kind of women, users, posers, and just plain vitches. I think your probably under 25 or close to 25.

 

Not all women are like the ones you have met to date.

 

I have tried to break it down for you a couple of times. Here it is the secrets of what attracts women on a basic and instictive level regardless of what they may say.

 

Women are attracted to three kinds of men depending on where they are in their menstrual cycle. Men who are physically (facially) masculine, Men who are creatively inteligent, and men who are physically (facially) feminine/less masculine. (http://www.epjournal.net/filestore/EP06134146.pdf A review article from the Journal of Evolutionary psychology. )

 

 

So forget that women want to be put on a pedestal.

So forget that women want men who are jerks.

So forget much of what women will say because they say it for the sake of social desireability.

 

It's all about doing one of two things. Being born either with good masculine genes, or good genes for creativity and mental ability, or demonstrating that you are a good long term provider.

 

Wayne, and men like you, may think by paying for everything you are demonstrating your long term provider potential. It more likely comes off as you looking like you want to "buy" the woman.

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MrLonelyOne, WB has not even asked a woman out on a date. He is a teenager. He is using all of the stuff he spews as a self-protective shield to excuse him from taking any risks where the other sex is concerned, and he appears to be very cowardly about it - "blaming" all of his issues on women. With whom he has had little to no contact. Reasoning with him is of no avail, and helping him to blame women even further is negative.

 

Until WB is ready to get to know any women in real life, and to take what he experiences at face value rather than skewing it with his funny pre-concieved notions, which he shows no signs of EVER doing, he can just remain here as an LS mascot until he is an old and bent over virgin.

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Wayne, you haven't asked a woman out on date, never been on a date, in a relationship, hell I'd be surprised if you so much as looked in a womans direction.

 

So why do you feel the need to come on here and be a dick? and yes, you are one. I am surprised the moderators put up with all your ****.

 

Go out, get a date, get rejected, then come on here and we'll talk, till then your a waste of space.

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MrLonelyOne, WB has not even asked a woman out on a date. He is a teenager. He is using all of the stuff he spews as a self-protective shield to excuse him from taking any risks where the other sex is concerned, and he appears to be very cowardly about it .

 

That young. I couldn't imagine a teen being so jaded as he is. Usually only a very bad experience will do that.

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That young. I couldn't imagine a teen being so jaded as he is. Usually only a very bad experience will do that.

 

I personally think he's just a troll trying to rile us all up.

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I personally think he's just a troll trying to rile us all up.

 

He does a good job at it to.

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I've seen it many times. If a boy (like myself) says he doesn't want to do all the work and put in all the effort then he gets accused of either being a troll or a misogynist.

 

Too me it seems that women basicly want their man to put them on a pedestal and more or less worship them, and any man who doesn't want to do that hates women. Have I understod it right here or have I gotten it all wrong?

 

Because I read threads were women get so over-sensetive and imiedietly accuses me of hating women if I question why the man always have to do all the work.

 

I question why things are a one way street and then boom... misogynist, troll, women hater, i should be banned, i have no right to even question that, im bitter, will never get a girlfriend, im a horrible man, etc etc :laugh:

 

Here, Wayne I edited your post for you.

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Heh, one of the women posters here should find out where he lives and just ravage him.

 

Then I wonder what kind of stuff he'd spew out :lmao:

Pyro Established Member

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I personally think he's just a troll trying to rile us all up.

 

Humans need food, water, fresh air, friends, and good times to survive.

 

Trolls survive on attention alone. If you want to get rid of a troll you know what to do.

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Humans need food, water, fresh air, friends, and good times to survive.

 

Trolls survive on attention alone. If you want to get rid of a troll you know what to do.

 

give them good times in an attempt to make them human?

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Humans need food, water, fresh air, friends, and good times to survive.

 

Trolls survive on attention alone. If you want to get rid of a troll you know what to do.

 

Call in a level 65 Warrior?

Pyro Established Member

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give them good times in an attempt to make them human?

 

that is up to them. They can sit behind a computer spewing out their hate/insecurities or they can go out and experience the real world with an open mind.

Pyro Established Member

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Call in a level 65 Warrior?

 

thats the backup plan.:cool:

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waynebrady Established Member

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I personally think he's just a troll trying to rile us all up.

 

Since you got nothing else to say but personal insults then why don't you just ignore me?

 

This just proves how offended women actually get when I suggest that you are not princesses who should be worshipped and that it's unfair that the man has to do all the work in a relationship.

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It's hilarious that people accuse me of being a troll just because they disagree with me.

 

I am not a troll, I don't fit the defenition of a troll, I have never insulted anybody on here, I've never spammed, I've always made well thought out posts.

 

My views just happens to offend the princessy type women who will call every man who critizes the "me me me" attitude as misogynists or trolls.

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Here, Wayne I edited your post for you.

 

How adorable, you're the one acting like a troll here not me. Because unlike you I don't go into threads just to insult someone.

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