blover Posted February 17, 2011 Posted February 17, 2011 Some of you might know my story. In short, ex emotionally cheated on me, i found out, break up, she sleeps with the guy within the next couple of days. Update.. So after i came back from a trip, i bought her a new years gift. Tried to persuade her to come back (dont ask me why). What did i get in return? She told me she had now started another relationship with a different person (different from the one she cheated on me..cause that guy left the country) and she wanted to give that a try. This within a week or two of breaking with me. Sleeps with two guys within a few weeks...wow... Told me my love is painful and all....... So.. 1) Thank you all you LSer's for your advice and support. I was in a dark place, you helped me and continue to help me by posting here. 2) I am slowly moving on with my life (havent contacted her for the past 3 weeks). I hit rock bottom on the night she told me she wanted to pursue her "new" relationship. She was very very rude and inconsiderate towards me then over the phone. I went out with friends that night, got drunk, passed out and my friends had to carry me home. I am thankful for having friends who can take care of me. They understood and did not ask questions. 3) I talked to another older friend of mine and he said never let a woman destroy your life. 4) I had posted in my original break up thread that i would do a few things which i had written down for myself. I am making progress on those. I moved to the city in a very nice apartment. Currently busy setting it up. I have made a few new friends. I am planning on hosting a house warming first for my closest friends soon. 3) I went out on a date. The date turned out to be extremely boring but atleast i did it. i do still think of her. Sometimes i get angry, sometimes sad, frustrated, feel betrayed. I do miss her but I am determined to find love again and to survive. I will survive, i will succeed, i will prosper, i will be happy and in love again soon
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