9Lives Posted February 16, 2011 Posted February 16, 2011 My ex emailed me on friday to see what I was doing and on sat to chit chat. I was cool with it. I wasn't expecting it. Anyway valentines rolls around so I thought maybe he would text me saluations for the occassion. Nothing! Don't get me wrong, I had a great day but the entire day I thought of hi and hope to hear from him. Since that day I have been kinda sad. I feel like it would have been nice to hear from him that day ebven if wasn't deep. I just wish I didn't feel this way but I do. Its just another slap in the face. The only good thing is he don't know all this inside of me which I'm glad about. Last month he email me for my birthday out the blue so I thought that maybe he has been missing me then this happens. I don't know why my heart keeps holding on. I wish I could change my feelings!
Leandro Posted February 17, 2011 Posted February 17, 2011 You'll be fine 9s. Just keep it up. No more down time. Happy late valentine's day to you!!
0hpenelope Posted February 17, 2011 Posted February 17, 2011 My ex emailed me on friday to see what I was doing and on sat to chit chat. I was cool with it. I wasn't expecting it. Anyway valentines rolls around so I thought maybe he would text me saluations for the occassion. Nothing! Don't get me wrong, I had a great day but the entire day I thought of hi and hope to hear from him. Since that day I have been kinda sad. I feel like it would have been nice to hear from him that day ebven if wasn't deep. I just wish I didn't feel this way but I do. Its just another slap in the face. The only good thing is he don't know all this inside of me which I'm glad about. Last month he email me for my birthday out the blue so I thought that maybe he has been missing me then this happens. I don't know why my heart keeps holding on. I wish I could change my feelings! Oh 9, would you really have wanted to hear from yucky ex during Valentine's Day? I was so relieved when I didn't hear from mine. His silence drives the point even further that he doesn't care about me. Puts a lot of things into perspective. He wants me out of his life, so I will stay gone. You feeling better? I hope so.
Bluebelle38 Posted February 17, 2011 Posted February 17, 2011 Hi 9Lives just wanted to say you are not alone. I did not hear from my ex on VD either. I didnt expect to but still... I think that in the next few weeks it will actually be helpful that he didnt. The subconscious mind will be registering it - he didnt care enough so why should you. I too am glad my ex has no idea how much I am hurting. I'm sure he knows I am but NO WAY am I going to contact him and tell him that. I've been here before with exes so I know you do eventually move on. As a friend od mine says, when one door closes, another opens... but the hallway is a b/tch. So true. Chin up pet, loads of us in the same boat. We wont be like this in time. take care xx
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