ray1978 Posted February 16, 2011 Share Posted February 16, 2011 Last march 2010 i met a woman on a course and fell for her we met a week after the course and ended up having sex i met her a few times after but only for drinks. Now the tricky part i was and still am married with 2 young children i never ever contemplated and wanted to ever cheat on my wife but i did. i felt something for this other woman which hurtfully i never felt with my wife exitment? something new? attention from a attractive female? i dont know! i know what i did was wrong but wanted to see her again she said she felt something to but ended it. my wife never found out i nearly told her a few few times what i done but didnt want to hurt her of the kids.(i know im a coward) I havnt seen the other woman for 6-7 months but still think about her every day i still cry and get a horrible feeling in my stomach some days when i see photos or hear music which remind me of her. what i dont know is what am i feeling is it guily or am i missing the other woman?? i cant go on feeling like this for much longer. ive seen a counceller but they just said time heals well is a year long enough? hope someone can help me. Link to post Share on other sites
stopthemadness Posted February 17, 2011 Share Posted February 17, 2011 ok like your on the wrong site. You probably should be on. The Other Man Other Woman or Marriage & Life Parterships. Or Maybe you can find the Cheaters web site IDK. Honestly your whole story makes me sick. Sooo maybe this is a troll post? Enough said............ Link to post Share on other sites
PowerOfOne Posted February 17, 2011 Share Posted February 17, 2011 Honestly your whole story makes me sick. Same. In saying that, I think it's definatly guilt. It's the lost innocence/purity of your marriage. I can't give you any advice on what to do. Cheating on a SO is something... well, words don't do justice to how I feel about it. Link to post Share on other sites
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