ray1978 Posted February 16, 2011 Posted February 16, 2011 Last march 2010 i met a woman on a course and fell for her we met a week after the course and ended up having sex i met her a few times after but only for drinks. Now the tricky part i was and still am married with 2 young children i never ever contemplated and wanted to ever cheat on my wife but i did. i felt something for this other woman which hurtfully i never felt with my wife exitment? something new? attention from a attractive female? i dont know! i know what i did was wrong but wanted to see her again she said she felt something to but ended it. my wife never found out i nearly told her a few few times what i done but didnt want to hurt her of the kids.(i know im a coward) I havnt seen the other woman for 6-7 months but still think about her every day i still cry and get a horrible feeling in my stomach some days when i see photos or hear music which remind me of her. what i dont know is what am i feeling is it guily or am i missing the other woman?? i cant go on feeling like this for much longer. ive seen a counceller but they just said time heals well is a year long enough? hope someone can help me.
gator12 Posted February 17, 2011 Posted February 17, 2011 It's guilt. Time heals all wounds, guilt is one of them that takes the longest. Many people feel guilt their whole lives. If you really love your wife then this guilt will last a while, you missing the other woman is a normal reaction to your guilt. If you were not guilty you would not miss her I gurantee that. At some point you need to tell your wife, she has a right to know, and if she never does then your whole relationship is based on a lie. -Gator
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