start-fresh Posted February 16, 2011 Posted February 16, 2011 Does anybody have any thoughts on the three month mark in relationships? I'm 24 and have been in a few relationships and nothing ever seems to last past this point for me, usually with me being the one losing interest. My current girlfriend, who I've been dating for, yep, three months, told me that she's in love with me but I don't feel like I'm anywhere close. In the last week or so I feel like I've been losing interest, actually. It makes me guilty that I can't return feelings that strong, and don't want to lead her on, but just feel like it's too soon for me to feel anything that strong. I'm trying to figure out if it's something wrong with me or I've never just met the right person. I'm generally very happy being single, but want to eventually get married and settle down. Most of the women I've dated have been good, quality women, but I just never feel anything deeply emotional for them. I don't know how to give something enough of a chance without leading someone on, you know?
aerogurl87 Posted February 16, 2011 Posted February 16, 2011 If you're happier being single, then stay single. But if you do really want to get married one day, DO NOT SETTLE! Find someone who can hold your attention past 3 months and that you can love whole heartedly.
Author start-fresh Posted February 17, 2011 Author Posted February 17, 2011 If you're happier being single, then stay single. But if you do really want to get married one day, DO NOT SETTLE! Find someone who can hold your attention past 3 months and that you can love whole heartedly. I try to look at it as "Am I more happy with her than alone?" and if the answer is yes keep dating her, but that reasoning gets complicated when somebody loves you more than you love her and you don't want to hurt her. That's what's kind of happening in this case for me.
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