Tofu Posted February 16, 2011 Posted February 16, 2011 I was on NC for 6 days straight until i kinda screwed up on the bread crumbs bit she texted me these 2 messages last night checking up on how i was: Heys, you alright?Not talking to me now? It resulted in us agreeing to talk on the phone later today, which i wanted to use to tell her i want NC between us if she is not ready for a relationship with me now. After the call i expect no more contact between us and then just let the harsh reality settle in for the both of us. this is the message that got to me the most: 'being long distance friends is easier then being in a long distant relationship, thats what i was hoping anyway. i dont want to hurt you anymore tho, so if you dont want me to talk to you...? if this is easier for you then, i can try to handle that' we stopped there and agreed to get some sleep and talk more about it tommorow. i still love her and she does too but she just couldnt handle our LDR anymore with us not being able to see each other everyday. We've only seen each other twice in our relationship and that was in the past 2 months and now that exams our over we can easily see each other weekly but she felt its not enough. She feels it would be better to be friends which i agreed on when i saw her last week (big mistake for me) but the contact we made last night i told her that there was no way that could work out, you just cant be friends with the one you love. Any advice or suggestions on how i should talk to her tonight? My main point is to get it straight in her head that we cant be friends and no contact would be best for us to both heal even tho it will be tough for the both of us. I really wanted to ask if we could meet up one last time to set the path on what we both really need to do face to face but i thats just gonna make things more complicated isnt it?
depplover_1980 Posted February 16, 2011 Posted February 16, 2011 Are you not listening to the previous advice people have given to you on the other threads about your story?
Author Tofu Posted February 16, 2011 Author Posted February 16, 2011 Are you not listening to the previous advice people have given to you on the other threads about your story? Im sorry i just felt so insecure earlier on what i needed to do, ive re-read them and i know wat needs to be done.
depplover_1980 Posted February 16, 2011 Posted February 16, 2011 I'm afraid no one is going to tell you anything new and fundamentally the true answers lie within you.
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