Author pandagirl Posted February 16, 2011 Author Posted February 16, 2011 Yes this is what i was getting at really - not that he was a villain for making his decision based on your disclosure. I know that sometimes when I lose someone or a relationship doesn't develop, I start thinking what a great guy I lost out on or what could have been (with some sandcastles I built in my head). So really, I was just emphasizing that what is gone may not have been all that great with that saying. . .I also like the little rhyme;) Aw thanks, you're very sweet! Yeah, I'm going to get over this relatively quickly, I think. I mean, it's not all bad: I hung out with a really hot guy and made out with him a whole bunch.
Roadlesstaken Posted February 16, 2011 Posted February 16, 2011 Panda, I totally agree with what you are saying. The loser wanna be user that I dated for a few months lied to me about a lot of things that would not have made a difference if he had just told me the truth. Of course, I found out these things after we had stopped seeing each other. I think that some people are just pathological liars and I don't have room for them in my life.
Author pandagirl Posted February 16, 2011 Author Posted February 16, 2011 Panda, I totally agree with what you are saying. The loser wanna be user that I dated for a few months lied to me about a lot of things that would not have made a difference if he had just told me the truth. Of course, I found out these things after we had stopped seeing each other. I think that some people are just pathological liars and I don't have room for them in my life. Yes, if someone came clean on their own volition and soon about lying about their age, it MIGHT ease my mind a bit. But withholding that information until proven guilty is weird. And, this particular guy I'm talking about, lied about one other thing, which leads me to believe he is just.. well, good at lying!
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