RomoGuy Posted February 16, 2011 Posted February 16, 2011 I cant help but remember my ex saying things like, "I wan't to be friends with everyone" and "I wan't to be able to hangout with my siblings when I want" during the breakup. Now, she would be the one calling me and wanting to hangout with me all the time, and I told her if she ever wanted to hangout with her friends anytime or her siblings (which I encouraged) she can tell me and it wont hurt my feelings, basically saying that we don't have to hangout all the time, and we both agreed that if we ever wanted to hangout with other friends instead of eachother we would tell one another, but we typically enjoyed hanging out with those friends while we were together. But the only friend of hers I ever told her not to be friends with was a girl that she was too nice to and too advantage of her, she didnt take my advice, and sure enough the friend screwed her over and then she told me that I was right and she should have listened to me, but other than that incident i never told her not to be friends with who she wants. And I also encouraged her to hang out with a sibling of hers that was going through a ruff time even if we were suppose to hangout that day.... When I told her those things after she said what she said during the breakup, I dont remember her giving me a real response to it, basically those things didn't have anything to do with me... is this GIGS trait?
carhill Posted February 16, 2011 Posted February 16, 2011 Hard to tell from the OP, but the person in question sounds more insecure than a person always looking for the bigger and better deal and/or new excitement. If the 'friends' and 'siblings' happened to be replaced with 'other men', and she moved from one to the next, that could be a symptom of GIGS.
Author RomoGuy Posted February 16, 2011 Author Posted February 16, 2011 Interesting... insercurities? about what?
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