quietGuy13 Posted February 16, 2011 Posted February 16, 2011 (edited) Hey guys. first time that i call her on the phone. hehe. it was great. We're going out in the weekend. then i said "Let's meet both days and do lots of activities and fun things and study etc' and she said yes. and she was excited. I think she's a student though. can that be a bad thing? i mean because she can be busy or i can distract her and take her time from studying.. i don't know. but she said she was free so i assume it's fine. But anyways, although this is not a date.. it's not dating. let's assume it is. Is it possible to have a relationship/friendship with a possibly busy student? and btw. she didn't seem to be 18 or that young. so i'm not asking it in that sense. i know she's proably something like in between 26 and 28 or could even be 30 Edited February 16, 2011 by quietGuy13
Nexus One Posted February 16, 2011 Posted February 16, 2011 Nexus high fives quietGuy. *clasp* That's good progress right there.
Author quietGuy13 Posted February 16, 2011 Author Posted February 16, 2011 Thanks Nexus. Well it also helped that she was nice and very excitedhappy to talk to me. So i guess i was lucky to meet someone nice
Duckduckgoose Posted February 16, 2011 Posted February 16, 2011 Man it looks like everyone is nailing dates lately!
somedude81 Posted February 16, 2011 Posted February 16, 2011 But anyways, although this is not a date.. it's not dating. let's assume it is. I really hope you don't get too excited. I don't want to see you get hurt. You need to decide what you want from her, and then take steps down that path. Don't go pretending that it's a date when you know it is not. That road will only lead to misery.
CoralRain Posted February 16, 2011 Posted February 16, 2011 What do you mean it is not a date? Do you like her or not?
Author quietGuy13 Posted February 16, 2011 Author Posted February 16, 2011 Well yes i like her but we have just met 1 time. so i don't know her that much yet. but she's really nice and friendly. ANd what do you mean it's not a date? Well...i dont know cause i've never had dates. i thought dates meant when it's more romantic. but we just friends. so i don't know. i'm inexperienced so i don't know the terminology
mtber75 Posted February 16, 2011 Posted February 16, 2011 Well yes i like her but we have just met 1 time. so i don't know her that much yet. but she's really nice and friendly. ANd what do you mean it's not a date? Well...i dont know cause i've never had dates. i thought dates meant when it's more romantic. but we just friends. so i don't know. i'm inexperienced so i don't know the terminology Yeah, if you guys did stuff together, its a date! Now a days, with everyone busy, a date can be just coffee or quiet walk together?
xpaperxcutx Posted February 16, 2011 Posted February 16, 2011 Well yes i like her but we have just met 1 time. so i don't know her that much yet. but she's really nice and friendly. ANd what do you mean it's not a date? Well...i dont know cause i've never had dates. i thought dates meant when it's more romantic. but we just friends. so i don't know. i'm inexperienced so i don't know the terminology Just call it a date if you're taking her out, and possibly paying for stuff. The only people who don't call dates dates are girls who doesn't like the guys they went out with. Scenario: Friend: So how was your " date"? Girl: What date? Me and this guy just " hung out together. Friend: I thought he asked you out? Girl: Yeah, he did, except I wasn't feeling it. So no, it wasn't a " date". Oh and if the girl really likes you, it's a date, unless you promptly air slapped her by saying " Well, I had a great time. Thanks for hanging out. We should do it again sometime". In fact, end the night with a kiss on the cheeks, and say " I had a great date with you, let's do it again real soon".
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