Vixen Gemma Posted February 16, 2011 Posted February 16, 2011 I don't get jealous, I do get flirty, I don't cheat, I don't see how I could any how. Problem: I don't have the will to date, I guess. It's not like most cases. I'm not heartbroken, making a point or unable to find suitable men. I get asked out frequently, I've gotten to the point where I don't like it, don't want to use the word 'hate' but it's close to it. I flirt when the moment comes, it's whatever. Um, a big issue: I was interested in three men, at different times and at some points they landed at the same time, I just talked with them but never wanted to expand on none of them. I can safely say one was very interesting to me, I had a higher physical attraction to him but, I didn't push it any further. I feel I don't have to, want to...? I'm pretty sure this is not a big deal however, second opinions are always welcomed ^_^. I'm told by my friends that I'm 'independent, don't need a relationship to be happy' and the works...but, I don't know. I'd like a relationship, to get back into one, BUT, I just don't want one, haven't for some time. It's gotten to the point where I've grown this 'soft' animosity towards the opposite sex for being so persistent but I'm foolish for doing so, it's human nature. I actually enjoy it when I don't have to be looked at by men, I feel relaxed, like on the beach relaxed. Maybe I'm just focused on my passion in life, I feel like I'm married to it, and in a way I don't mind it, I can accept that. It's something I'm so passionate about and so set on that my work and university studies are priority, I don't mind it. At all. A relationship is out of the question, but it seems so permanently set in me and I guess it's that thought that makes me a wee bit nervous. That's why I seek advice in knowing why I might be feeling this way or if I'm not too off on my thinking.
Chi townD Posted February 16, 2011 Posted February 16, 2011 well, I'm all about traveling and seeing the world. But it sounds like you just got out of a relationship. You might (subconsciously) be sizing this guys up and comparing them to your last relationship. Or you got burned with your last relationship and though you like the attention you get when you flirt, but the thought of getting too close to these guys pushes you away. It sounds like you got a good head on your shoulders. Date when YOU are ready to date. But, don't lead these guys on when you flirt, that's a little cruel if you ask me.
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