Author Jlovestruckx0 Posted February 17, 2011 Author Posted February 17, 2011 I totally see everyone's point of view & i don't think i can honestly go through with it, we have broken up in the past once for about a month, and im not completely sure about the strength of the relationship yet , and so i dont want to risk it just to make him happy. Any suggestions on some other ideas that could top the 3 some dumb fantasy?
xpaperxcutx Posted February 17, 2011 Posted February 17, 2011 Just to clarify, not all males do it. It may be a male fantasy, but I think most posters that have commented are representative of the majority of men who do not participate in threesomes. There's no stepping around it except telling him how you feel about the issue. I think his reaction about your objection should be more than adequate for you to decide whether he's relatioship material or worthy of a dumping.
Gala Posted February 17, 2011 Posted February 17, 2011 You both sound pretty young. The curiosity and fascination that he has expressed are understandable, especially for someone without that much experience. That doesn't mean that you need to be along for the ride. Take care of yourself on this one.
LoganParker Posted March 9, 2011 Posted March 9, 2011 I think a threesome must be a shared experience. You should be getting equal pleasure out of the dynamic. If your boyfriend is mature enough to handle a threesome with you... he should also be mature enough to assure you that you are number one no matter what. He sounds like he wants that threesome so badly that he'd be willing to make you number two in order to get it.
SincereOnlineGuy Posted March 9, 2011 Posted March 9, 2011 I'm trying to understand the feelings behind being in a committed relationship, but still wanting to experiment a threesome as a male. Im a female and i I don't personally fantasize over those kind of things, or even think about them , but recently my boyfriend has brought it to my attention that a threesome is something he wants to try. Any suggestions? Help ? Don't reject his wish out of spite or as the result of your jealousy. Reject this proposition because it will ultimately tear apart your relationship. Nothing else really matters.
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