xpaperxcutx Posted February 15, 2011 Posted February 15, 2011 When set upon a base of character, charisma provides the stage to perform its seduction over and over. The ability to identify these qualities and their relative proportion to each other is key, not just in seduction but in securing healthy, stable, sustainable relationships. The capacity for character and charisma exists in each of us. Instead of simply searching for an ideal mate, begin by adjusting the sliding scale in yourself to ideal proportions. Souls of a like nature seek each other out, so if you truly want to find The One, start by becoming The One. http://www.jackfrombkln.com/the-golden-ratio-of-attraction/#more-1170
Nexus One Posted February 15, 2011 Posted February 15, 2011 Souls of a like nature seek each other out, so if you truly want to find The One, start by becoming The One. People who have a crush on someone often copy the behavior of the one they they have a crush on. Except I'm not sure if I like it when someone does this. When I like someone for who she is and she starts copying my behavior, speech patterns, etc, then she's deconstructing the very things I like about her. If I liked myself so much, I'd be in love with myself and would stare at myself all day in the reflection of a pool of water, just like Narcissus http://tinyurl.com/54daa . It could be cute if a girl does it a little bit, it shows that she likes you, but if it becomes too extreme, then I would probably say something about it and tell her to tone it down for her own good.
Author xpaperxcutx Posted February 16, 2011 Author Posted February 16, 2011 People who have a crush on someone often copy the behavior of the one they they have a crush on. Except I'm not sure if I like it when someone does this. When I like someone for who she is and she starts copying my behavior, speech patterns, etc, then she's deconstructing the very things I like about her. If I liked myself so much, I'd be in love with myself and would stare at myself all day in the reflection of a pool of water, just like Narcissus http://tinyurl.com/54daa . It could be cute if a girl does it a little bit, it shows that she likes you, but if it becomes too extreme, then I would probably say something about it and tell her to tone it down for her own good. I liked the article but I do think the writer was being general about the concept. You know how like attracts like? In terms of the physical, prettier people tend to date prettier people; just as a professor in physics would want to date someone in his field or equivalent.
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