SundayGirl Posted February 15, 2011 Posted February 15, 2011 I was hoping he'd contact me yesterday. Today is Day 17 NC, he broke up with me 18 days ago. Anyone else not get what they were hoping for yesterday?
kaygato Posted February 15, 2011 Posted February 15, 2011 Me! Although at this point I'm not expecting it at all. It doesn't mean I can't hope, though. I went to sleep crying last night partly because of it. I just wish I could kill my hope even more.
SDA Posted February 15, 2011 Posted February 15, 2011 I was hoping he'd contact me yesterday. Today is Day 17 NC, he broke up with me 18 days ago. Anyone else not get what they were hoping for yesterday? Don't be so upset. It's still early in your break-up and if there is any chance of reconciliation then there needs to be more time. He probably thought about you all day so don't be so upset. You'll feel better each and everyday. If it was meant to be it was meant to be. You too kaygato. Take it day by day and be happy you wake up everyday
PegNosePete Posted February 15, 2011 Posted February 15, 2011 Me! I didn't get what I was hoping for. I was hoping for a letter from her solicitors. Still waiting, they haven't replied to 3 of my letters.
Nita10 Posted February 15, 2011 Posted February 15, 2011 Me! It's been 2.5 months since he broke up with me.. I went NC for a month so far.. was hoping for something yesterday.. especially because I knew he was feeling a bit down and went to the gym very late last night.. thought he might be regretting/reconsidering things.. Ah, this sucks! Hope you're doing better today!
broken-and-lost Posted February 15, 2011 Posted February 15, 2011 if it makes you feel better my ex told me she got flowers from some other guy and was going on a date with him, that she loved me but wasn't in love with me now that is a **** valentine, maybe you guys are lucky not to hear anything at all
ladii Posted February 15, 2011 Posted February 15, 2011 I didn't get any either except from another guy LOL... I didn't want one from my ex....because then I would have felt obligated to send him one [which I didn't send one]...and that would have broken NC which I didn't want...I am on Day 15.... I think you not sending one to them either shows strength !!! Can only be a good thing
9Lives Posted February 15, 2011 Posted February 15, 2011 I didn't hear from my ex and it made me feel down. He contacted me on 000fri and Sat but not that day. It didn't make me feel good. At the end of the day they are the ex and we shouldn't be expecting anything. Especially if u barely started speaking or are not speaking at all. I think it is mich better to not contact the ex and play it cool than to put yourself out there and cut your neck cut off. For all they know, you had a great date or something. Its better this way than to be in their face. I know it made me feel bad bur I'm proud of myself for having a great day dispite the disappointment. Sorry for any spelling error. I'm using the ell phonec
gator12 Posted February 16, 2011 Posted February 16, 2011 Be thankful he didn't guys. You would have all bit, I almost gurantee it, Valentine's Day has a way of doing it. Stay strong, 17 days isn't nearly enough time apart. My ex, did contact, it was very sweet too, but not one word back to her. Not one word unless she says she wants to get back together. That's how it needs to be, I don't accept crumbs. None of you should either, be happy life is good. Always looking up, -Gator
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