Faded_x Posted February 15, 2011 Posted February 15, 2011 Have your feelings for someone suddenly changed, for seemingly no real reason? The person I am talking about is a friend of mine. We went to school together, but were never close then; just friendly. It wasn't until we left school, and both remained living in the area, that we became pretty good friends. By "feelings" I mean something purely platonic and friendly. I had always thought of her as an extremely nice and wonderful person until the past 6-12 months or so. There has been no major incident that has made me feel this way. I have just noticed little things along the way, that has changed my opinion of her. To be honest, she just seems really fake. I feel like I'm being horrible and petty, because it's not like she's ever really done anything to me; but I can't help feeling the way I do. I've actually had a few other people in my group mention the same thing to me as I feel; so it's not just me. No one seems to think it's a big deal though, and continue on with things as usual. To be perfectly honest though, I'm not really all that interested in a friendship with her anymore. However, it makes things difficult that we're in the same group of friends. I know I can't just cut her out of my life, without probably cutting out most of my friends too, and I definitely don't want that. I know all I can really do is suck it up, and deal with her in a friendly way when I have to. Has anyone else ever had this problem?
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