mridul_chajilee Posted February 15, 2011 Posted February 15, 2011 Last night i was drunk.My cousin bro forced me to call my Ex,but i denied that im in NC for 1year so i cant do it.But he gave various reasons and told me that if she is relazing and want to call you but due to her ego problem she might not call you.He also told me that i will suffer entire life if i wil not get her as my wife and she also.But i told her that why should i only realise,why does not she realise and not call me.Then he told me that i should atleast try for 1time if she comes back.Then i told him that i have no number of her and even i can't collect her number due to lack of friend.Then he told me that if i have any contact of her family then i told that i have a number of her older sister then he forced me to call her,then i rang her two or three times at night but her sister did not pick it up.So is it NC break?cause her sister will inform my Ex that i rang her.Thanks.
PegNosePete Posted February 15, 2011 Posted February 15, 2011 There are no prizes for getting to a certain length of NC. It's not a competition. It's about your healing, that's all. If you can call her without feeling worse then it's not a problem. If talking to her will still stir up bad emotions (ie. you're not over her yet) then don't do it. Is this an NC break that you did? It doesn't matter. What matters is how you feel. Do you feel that what you did has adversely affected your recovery?
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