purple_cloud Posted February 15, 2011 Posted February 15, 2011 I met this guy online few weeks ago. We corresponded for a bit then decided to meet up in person yesterday. It was actually Valentines day but neither of us mentioned it at all. We just had a coffee date and ended up chatting for 2-3 hours. He is smart and funny. There was no flirting or touching at all. He only hugged me at the end of the date. He did ask mid-date if I am available one day this week to hang out and play some cards at his place. On the spot, I said yes. Few hours after I got home he texted me that he had a nice time and asked me to come online to chat a bit more. So I did. During IM conversation I asked him what he is looking for in terms of relationships. He said that he has just moved to the area so is not looking for something TOO serious right off the bat. But he also said that he is open to it happening gradually and with the right person. I thought fair enough and wasn't really bothered by his answer. My concern is that he asked me to play cards at his place as a second date. This is supposed to happen at 7:30pm on a week night. I am not sure if he is just after quick sex. It would be kind of weird because first date had no sexual feeling to it. Thoughts? I am on the fence about seeing him again. If I do end up going, I am not going to have sex with him. Again, not sure if that is just leading him on and he is 100% expecting sex.
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