frostythesnowman Posted February 14, 2011 Posted February 14, 2011 Hey everyone, I posted this in the general discussion as well but noticed not many view that part of the forums but here's my story.. Please take the time to read it, help and tips would be greatly appreciated. I'm a junior in high school and I've been best friends with this girl for about 4 years. We dated for a year and broke up about 6 months ago. Our relationship was great, I lost my virginity to her, and I know a lot of people wouldn't agree with me saying this but I can say I love her. We've been very on and off since we broke up and have talked to and hooked up with other people. I haven't gotten over my feelings for her since we broke up and I've tried NC, but it never really works because she will end up contacting me. The thing is, I don't want to get over her. I have really strong feelings for her and I love spending time with her. When with another girl I don't feel the same connection and it just doesn't feel right. A little over a month ago, I screwed up and at a party we were both at I was pretty drunk and got fed up with seeing her with another guy and said some uncalled for things to her and called her several times in a really bad state. This was a huge mistake on my part and screwed me over in the end. She is now with another guy, not officially dating, but hanging out and stuff but we still talk a good amount and she's told me that she "misses me" and "its not the same without me" and that she misses how I used to compliment her and that her family misses me. I miss her too so much, and I've told her that I don't really have feelings for her now but that I do miss her (which I do still have feelings for her, but telling her won't help anything). We plan on going to prom together this spring no matter if either of us are with someone else or not, so that's good but I really want to be with her and I can't stop thinking about her. It's been like this since we broke up, and for the past 4 years even since I've known her. It's always been like this, on and off between us, and I'm so attracted to her physically and emotionally. So, I do NOT want tips on how to get over her, just how can I get her back? Shes not exactly in a relationship with this guy but just "with" him so it wouldn't be a bad thing if I was trying to get back with her. How can I make her want me even more and miss me more?? I don't want to be too clingy and I want to give her something to chase but I don't want to barely talk to her enough that she forgets about me. Help me please!!!! Thanks so much
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