Tofu Posted February 14, 2011 Posted February 14, 2011 (edited) Whole and Short story of my breakup can be found here: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showthread.php?t=264554 So ive been in NC for 5days now and it is today of all days that i felt a massive crack in me that made me want to look at my ex's facebook profile. A guy friend of hers had already shown an interest towards her a month before our breakup and now hes sent a valentines card to her on fb and its just making me feel like crap at the moment. She admitted she had a slight liking to him before but she stuck by me thinking she can only see a future with me until our break up last Wednesday which she blamed on distance only... i believed it to be the only reason cos she insisted and i still do, but now this friend of hers has made his move and its driving me insane clicking on her fb page every 30mins to see wat she thinks of it im starting to lose control of this NC, i need help... Edited February 14, 2011 by Tofu
Hules Posted February 14, 2011 Posted February 14, 2011 You want help... Heres the only advice that will help you de-friend her right NOW. Stalking her FB is doing you no good and will end up causing you to do something rash and stupid. You need to focus on yourself and your own life right now. You need to spend time with people who care about you. You need to stop stalking your ex and stop any information about her coming to you, meaning Facebook is poison when you are trying to heal.
Author Tofu Posted February 14, 2011 Author Posted February 14, 2011 You want help... Heres the only advice that will help you de-friend her right NOW. Stalking her FB is doing you no good and will end up causing you to do something rash and stupid. You need to focus on yourself and your own life right now. You need to spend time with people who care about you. You need to stop stalking your ex and stop any information about her coming to you, meaning Facebook is poison when you are trying to heal. I considered it before but was afraid she'd take it the wrong way, I still want to get back with her but if I realize now shes going to be together with him theres just no way i could do that ever again. Theres just this sudden urge inside me to want to talk to her on msn tonite and try and get some facts out but with NC in place i know i just cant do that. She still had strong feelings for me (kissed passionatly before i left) during the day we broke up thats why i feel like theres still hope i could salvage this... i just wish i could know wat she was thinking right now in short
0hpenelope Posted February 14, 2011 Posted February 14, 2011 Your fear came true, but it hasn't killed you. You'll be fine. Process it, grieve over it, but you will be fine, ok?
Author Tofu Posted February 14, 2011 Author Posted February 14, 2011 Your fear came true, but it hasn't killed you. You'll be fine. Process it, grieve over it, but you will be fine, ok? As much as i dont want this to be true, i guess thats all i can do now...
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