Pyro Posted February 15, 2011 Posted February 15, 2011 My friend who is seeing a married woman has been told that sex with him is like a religious experience. :lmao: A crucifiction perhaps.
alphamale Posted February 15, 2011 Posted February 15, 2011 If I just had my fun and played around in my younger days I would not have the serious trust issues I have now despite hitting the marriage lottery. dude i've been with enough chicks for me, you and pyro combined
Pyro Posted February 15, 2011 Posted February 15, 2011 dude i've been with enough chicks for me, you and pyro combined and do you have any trust issues?
Author Woggle Posted February 15, 2011 Author Posted February 15, 2011 :lmao: A crucifiction perhaps. Maybe. She sounds like your typical affair having type who thinks the OM is some sort of god. Why my friend thinks this is some big achievement on his part is beyond me.
Jannah Posted February 15, 2011 Posted February 15, 2011 This is true for some but most men I know who sleep around have reputations of being demons in bed. My friend who is seeing a married woman has been told that sex with him is like a religious experience. Come to think of it he is actually a good example of why a man should play around in his youth. He was always a nice man who treated women with respect and was a one woman man until he got cheated on three times in a row and is now sleeping with married women. On the other hand I went to a friend's wedding two years ago who seemed to take a different woman home every week and him and his wife are very happy. He waited for the right one. Well gee, that just make so much sense. .. Stop glorifying these people Woggle, for the love of God!
Disillusioned Posted February 15, 2011 Posted February 15, 2011 Now me, I got nothing but the bad apples, so I quit the game and took myself off the market. The silver lining to that cloud is the number of stories my bad experiences have inspired me to write, and who knows what luck I might come into from that? I might as well make some money off my past unhappiness.
Disillusioned Posted February 15, 2011 Posted February 15, 2011 The joke really is on them when it comes to the ONS player group. They avoid relationships and focus on racking up the numbers and what does it get them? Good question. There must be some kind of system which lets guys redeem their accumulated points at a whorehouse after they score enough times... a sort of sex version of frequent flyer miles.
U1987 Posted February 15, 2011 Posted February 15, 2011 I know sometimes it seems that I idolize my player friends and while there were moments that I envied that life I no longer do. I would not give up what I have now for all the attractive women in the world because I have the best right at home. That being said when I look at the things some of my friends did back in the day while I was wasting time trying bending over backwards for a woman that screwed me over anyway I get envious. This is exactly why I want to spend the rest of my 20s playing/sleeping around, despite the objections some moral authoritarians have on this forum.
alphamale Posted February 15, 2011 Posted February 15, 2011 and do you have any trust issues? really more commitment issues...along with a myriad of other insecurities
Author Woggle Posted February 15, 2011 Author Posted February 15, 2011 This is exactly why I want to spend the rest of my 20s playing/sleeping around, despite the objections some moral authoritarians have on this forum. As long as you are being honest about it have fun. It is better than wasting your youth trying to please a forever resentful woman. Just don't lie to women and stay away from married women.
Pyro Posted February 15, 2011 Posted February 15, 2011 really more commitment issues...along with a myriad of other insecurities thus proving that sowing oats does not guarantee to be a cure for anything.
Author Woggle Posted February 15, 2011 Author Posted February 15, 2011 thus proving that sowing oats does not guarantee to be a cure for anything. Every case is different and maybe sowing oats is not the answer but can you admit it is obvious that I would not have so many issues if this were my first marriage? I think of all the time I wasted and I feel it could have been better spent.
Pyro Posted February 15, 2011 Posted February 15, 2011 Every case is different and maybe sowing oats is not the answer but can you admit it is obvious that I would not have so many issues if this were my first marriage? I think of all the time I wasted and I feel it could have been better spent. I'm not so sure. Take away your first marriage and you still have your mom issues, along with your continued addiction to reading women hating articles/message boards.
alphamale Posted February 15, 2011 Posted February 15, 2011 thus proving that sowing oats does not guarantee to be a cure for anything. who said it was??
Pyro Posted February 15, 2011 Posted February 15, 2011 who said it was?? Did you not read the first post in this thread?
Author Woggle Posted February 15, 2011 Author Posted February 15, 2011 I'm not so sure. Take away your first marriage and you still have your mom issues, along with your continued addiction to reading women hating articles/message boards. I know this sounds hard to believe but despite what I went through with my mother I never had negative views towards women until my divorce. Maybe it was something deep seeded that finally came out but I was so fed up with trying to please a woman and do everything under the sun for her only to be spat upon that I finally said the hell with it and decided that I would never be a doormat to any woman again. I just feel that if had my fun in my 20s instead of wasting time trying to make her happy I would developed a healthier sense of independence and strength instead of having this bitterness that I am trying so hard to get rid of without becoming the weak man who got walked all over that I used to be.
alphamale Posted February 15, 2011 Posted February 15, 2011 Did you not read the first post in this thread? i did but i'm trying to say that banging a bunch of chicks is not a panacea
aerogurl87 Posted February 15, 2011 Posted February 15, 2011 I sowed my wild oats in about a year's time. I'm just scared my boyfriend will have the same regret as you Woggle when he gets older. I don't think he will though as he's not really the type to want to go out and try to get with different girls.
alphamale Posted February 15, 2011 Posted February 15, 2011 I sowed my wild oats in about a year's time. thats not a long time
aerogurl87 Posted February 15, 2011 Posted February 15, 2011 thats not a long time When you have a group in your phone called "harem" that has a different guy to take you out for dinner every day of the week, I think it's long enough.
Pyro Posted February 15, 2011 Posted February 15, 2011 males need to sow there oats. dont matter for females. could you explain how you know this?
Disillusioned Posted February 15, 2011 Posted February 15, 2011 The late singer James Brown certainly sowed his wild oats. DNA tests are still turning up people all over the place who were fathered by him. But James Brown was a piker compared to Genghis Khan. I was watching a documentary that said 32 million Asians are walking around today with DNA that can be traced back to him.
CluelessGuy1986 Posted February 15, 2011 Posted February 15, 2011 I can somewhat understand the sentiment of this thread, however the only reason I might wish I had "sowed more wild oats" would be because when I do meet that special lady (and I think I might have) I will have that much more experience and know how to please her better. Numbers dont really matter to me at all, if someone offered me 30 random woman over the next year or that 1 special one, I would take the 1 without hesitation.
Anela Posted February 15, 2011 Posted February 15, 2011 The joke really is on them when it comes to the ONS player group. They avoid relationships and focus on racking up the numbers and what does it get them? An ungodly number of women who know they don't know how to **** well. I was thinking the same thing, when I got into a discussion about this on Sunday.
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