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Everyone stay calm, do not break NC today.


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Whew its over :bunny:

 

Sorry to those who broke down and got hurt, we all do it, and sometimes repeatedly (me me me me.) I guess its just something we have to learn, like touching the stove to realize its hot. Next time we'll know better than to ask for that type of punishment ;)

 

Although I had zero intention of doing anything about it, I thought about this person all day to be honest. You can't choose who you love, but just remember that they can't either. We're all in the same boat, the moment i realized that fact, it felt like a weight was lifted off of my chest. Do I still love this person? Yes. Will I let it control me? Not anymore.

 

For all of you in dark places, I've been there, very dark places, I didn't think I'd ever fight my way out, and maybe I'm not completely done yet.

 

Throw the pictures away, the notes, the clothes, the presents, the contact info, delete them from your phone, erase them from your current life, because they belonged to the old one, and you don't want to miss out on new opportunities because you're stuck in a holding pattern.

 

delete.reboot.update. :cool:

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Whew its over :bunny:

 

Sorry to those who broke down and got hurt, we all do it, and sometimes repeatedly (me me me me.) I guess its just something we have to learn, like touching the stove to realize its hot. Next time we'll know better than to ask for that type of punishment ;)

 

Although I had zero intention of doing anything about it, I thought about this person all day to be honest. You can't choose who you love, but just remember that they can't either. We're all in the same boat, the moment i realized that fact, it felt like a weight was lifted off of my chest. Do I still love this person? Yes. Will I let it control me? Not anymore.

 

For all of you in dark places, I've been there, very dark places, I didn't think I'd ever fight my way out, and maybe I'm not completely done yet.

 

Throw the pictures away, the notes, the clothes, the presents, the contact info, delete them from your phone, erase them from your current life, because they belonged to the old one, and you don't want to miss out on new opportunities because you're stuck in a holding pattern.

 

delete.reboot.update. :cool:

 

great post and MOST DEFINATELY needed. Thanks for coming back to us to keep us strong on such a trying day. It shouldnt be that trying but it is for some reason.

 

I thought about my ex too but knew better than to take action to the thoughts. He broke up with me so there was no way I would get myself all worked up and hurt on that day.

 

It was hard enough know he was out there doing something, not with me. Plus he contacted me that friday and saturday.

 

Once again, alot of us thank you for your support and words of encouragment. muah!!

 

we need the like button on LS

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It made me cringe as well!!! ;-)

 

cheered me up after my day thats for sure :)

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