Sugarkane Posted February 14, 2011 Posted February 14, 2011 I can't get rid of the gut feeling that I was cheated on. It would explain everything. Since I was cut completely off and never got to say anything and no one would tell me why the hell my ex did a 180 on me. I find it extremely tempting to break NC.
PowerOfOne Posted February 14, 2011 Posted February 14, 2011 Hey Sugarkane. I felt the same for a while after my ex called it quits. She may or may not have have another guy waiting in the wings. I don't really care to know to be honest. It certainly wouldn't make me feel better either way! My advice is keep up the NC and try and look forward without thinking of him being a part of it. Set some goals for this year that you can achieve without a SO. After a while you'll see things from a new perspective and accept that s*** happens unfortunatly. It still hurts though. It takes time to get over someone. To let it go. It'll take even longer if you are still hanging onto hope that he'll come back. It's a gradual process, but it does get easier! The pain does fade away. You just have to let time do it's thing. Keep focused on moving on.
depplover_1980 Posted February 14, 2011 Posted February 14, 2011 Yes I am not sure what you hope to achieve by finding this out, other than it will give you a serious trust complex for the future. People sadly change their minds without anyone else involved and though it is hard to face the possibility of he just doesn't want you, in time you will have to face it. But his loss, the loser!!
GreenPolicy Posted February 14, 2011 Posted February 14, 2011 You have to stick with NC. There is nothing your ex can say to you that will make you feel better...other than expressing a desire to reconcile.
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