Jazzari Posted February 14, 2011 Posted February 14, 2011 Very definitely notice the eyes first. If the guy has that devil's twinkle, then I'm a goner. Secondary would be coloring - I don't care for blondes. Then the smile - and there must be teeth. A closed mouth smile is a turn off for me.
Author Ay Diesel T Posted February 14, 2011 Author Posted February 14, 2011 Lol women are picky as hell. Jesus. As a guy all I need is a nice ass, nice breasts, nice face. :S
Jazzari Posted February 14, 2011 Posted February 14, 2011 Lol women are picky as hell. Jesus. As a guy all I need is a nice ass, nice breasts, nice face. :SAnd long shapely legs, beautiful thick hair, small waist, perky little nose? All topped off with a seductive come hither smile.
Author Ay Diesel T Posted February 14, 2011 Author Posted February 14, 2011 And long shapely legs, beautiful thick hair, small waist, perky little nose? All topped off with a seductive come hither smile. Oh god yes. Me likes all of that. Where is she? :love: I have a nice smile, posture, and walk to show her. And a confident gaze. I always go for the eye contact. As if I'm peering into their soul.
Nexus One Posted February 14, 2011 Posted February 14, 2011 (edited) Lol women are picky as hell. Jesus. As a guy all I need is a nice ass, nice breasts, nice face. :S Some guys have even lower standards, they'll f*ck anything with a hole. Just to be clear, I'm not that kind of guy. PS: Note that I'm not saying you have low standards, I'm just commenting on certain type of guys I've met in life. Edited February 14, 2011 by Nexus One
Duckduckgoose Posted February 14, 2011 Posted February 14, 2011 Hmm... if I am approaching a group of fellows I might want to talk to I notice how they carry themselves first. As I get closer I check out facial expressions and eyes. Then how they interact with each other. Are they smiling or a little snarky looking, do they have an attitude, are they playful, humorous? From there it's overall body shape... are they in shape? Are they a fatty? Then I check out hands... left hand... wedding ring? If they are married its a definite not gonna happen.
Ruby Slippers Posted February 14, 2011 Posted February 14, 2011 The first thing I notice is his demeanor, his attitude, how he's carrying himself. Does he have a pleasant vibe about him, seem at ease, have some flow to whatever he's doing? If no, I'm repelled and probably won't look at him anymore. If yes, I look further. Once I've assessed that he seems like a good, cool guy, the first thing I notice is his physical stature -- height, body tone, general size. I'm tall, so I like a tall man with some substance and size to his body. From there, I go on to study the specifics -- eyes, facial features, hands, what he's doing, what he's wearing, what kind of lover I imagine him to be...
cerridwen Posted February 14, 2011 Posted February 14, 2011 (edited) Ladies! When walking about, and you see an attractive guy, what's the first thing you notice about him, that stirs your interest and lust? This goes for eye contact, smiles, etc..you get my point. My head swivels for a guy over 5'10 with a V-shaped physique. The broader the shoulders the better, He doesn't have to be a big juice ball. Just a guy that looks very fit. If he has a nice face with good white teeth, game over. That's my version of eye candy. Edited February 14, 2011 by cerridwen
Author Ay Diesel T Posted February 14, 2011 Author Posted February 14, 2011 What if he's wearing something simple that complements his physique? A nice fitted hanes t-shirt, dark jeans, sneakers?
cerridwen Posted February 14, 2011 Posted February 14, 2011 What if he's wearing something simple that complements his physique? A nice fitted hanes t-shirt, dark jeans, sneakers? That's what I'm talkin about. Forget all the Ed Hardy junk--too tacky...too...cheesy. I want a man so a FITTED t-shirt, jeans, sneakers are perfect.
Titania22 Posted February 14, 2011 Posted February 14, 2011 The bulge in his pants. Just kidding, there is never a bulge.:lmao:
Author Ay Diesel T Posted February 14, 2011 Author Posted February 14, 2011 That's what I'm talkin about. Forget all the Ed Hardy junk--too tacky...too...cheesy. I want a man so a FITTED t-shirt, jeans, sneakers are perfect. Hmmm and a watch, nothing too flashy. Just a nice, seasoned and clean watch. Thoughts?
cerridwen Posted February 14, 2011 Posted February 14, 2011 Hmmm and a watch, nothing too flashy. Just a nice, seasoned and clean watch. Thoughts? A watch on a guy is great. Especially when he has nice forearms because it draws attention to them.
Star Gazer Posted February 14, 2011 Posted February 14, 2011 Hmmm and a watch, nothing too flashy. Just a nice, seasoned and clean watch. Thoughts? What's a seasoned watch? Such a tasty detail, I need to know specifics!
Hopeful30 Posted February 14, 2011 Posted February 14, 2011 His height (tall is sexy), his face (I don't like baby faces, I like a man with definition) and how he is dressed (clean cut, suited for the occasion, european)
Gypsy_Soul Posted February 14, 2011 Posted February 14, 2011 Funny, this reminds me of a date I went on with a guy from online. He was muscular build, very tall, dark and handsome. Dressed really nice, had a great smile and dimples. The only thing was, that when we finally met and he opened his mouth...it was a high pitched like Mike Tyson Major turn off. So I'd have to add, I now make sure to notice their voice first.
Kaplan Posted February 14, 2011 Posted February 14, 2011 What's a seasoned watch? Such a tasty detail, I need to know specifics! I think a seasoned watch must mean he's had it for a while. Either that or it's got salt and pepper sprinkled on it.
Eeyore79 Posted February 14, 2011 Posted February 14, 2011 I always notice what a guy wears, as it says a lot about his personality. Tracksuit and gold jewelry? No thanks. Untidy, scruffy looking clothes? No thanks. Gothic, punk, etc? No thanks. Loads of fashion labels? No thanks. A suit, or smart jeans and a nice shirt? Yes please, he's obviously my type of guy! Next I'd probably look at his face and body - is he cute? I like a big strong kind of guy, preferably with a bit of chest hair. If he has a nice smile that's a huge plus Say you and a guy make eye contact, but he's a bit on the nervous/shy side even though he's good looking. Turn on or off? Nervous and shy is a turn-on. It's sweet and cute, and I'm shy myself so we're likely to be compatible.
Duckduckgoose Posted February 14, 2011 Posted February 14, 2011 Hmm... seasoned watch like an old reliable Seiko or Rolex is my guess. My dad's had his Seiko going on 35 years now. Had to have it gutted twice but he won't get rid of it. I am a female, but I wear a 6 year old "lightly seasoned" Fossil watch that has been gutted once because of some magnetic anomaly that fried my cellphone and killed my watch.
Author Ay Diesel T Posted February 14, 2011 Author Posted February 14, 2011 What's a seasoned watch? Such a tasty detail, I need to know specifics! Lol! Poor choice of words on my part. Like a Guess Watch, not too flashy, but not too cheap looking.
elaina Posted February 14, 2011 Posted February 14, 2011 (edited) Ladies! When walking about, and you see an attractive guy, what's the first thing you notice about him, that stirs your interest and lust? This goes for eye contact, smiles, etc..you get my point. The first thing I notice about a guy depends on what he's doing!!! If he's staring at me, I notice. If I think he's handsome, I notice that too. If he's smiling at me, that the biggest first thing I notice, his smile and his eyes. Eyes are very important to me, not just their color, but what's through them... if you can see the soul of someone, it's through their eyes and the aura they radiate. Also, I notice height, because if he's really tall, I have to really look up to see his eyes lol. If he's not tall, I don't have to crane my neck so much. So yeah, what I notice first are the following: smile, eyes, aura, handsomeness, height and whatever he is doing at the time (walking, laughing, talking,...) Edited February 14, 2011 by elaina
Author Ay Diesel T Posted February 14, 2011 Author Posted February 14, 2011 Can women tell if a guy is lacking confidence by his eyes? I have dark brown eyes. Not sure if you can tell much when looking at them, unless my facial expression is hinting at something. Generally I walk around with an emotionless face. But when I'm looking at a beautiful woman, it switches to sort of a curious look.
Emilia Posted February 14, 2011 Posted February 14, 2011 eyes. I notice eyes straight away the same way as elaina does. big, bright, soulful eyes are my thing everything else comes after
Emilia Posted February 14, 2011 Posted February 14, 2011 Can women tell if a guy is lacking confidence by his eyes? a confident man will hold my gaze, I'm very direct and look at people in the eye.
Author Ay Diesel T Posted February 14, 2011 Author Posted February 14, 2011 a confident man will hold my gaze, I'm very direct and look at people in the eye. Can you tell the level of a guy's..."want"..by his gaze? Someone told me women can sense how much a man want's them. As if they're some kind of Jedi Master.
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