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What's the first thing you notice on a guy?


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Ladies! When walking about, and you see an attractive guy, what's the first thing you notice about him, that stirs your interest and lust?

 

This goes for eye contact, smiles, etc..you get my point.

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The way they carry themselves (posture, walk, etc.) and then their eyes.

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The way they carry themselves (posture, walk, etc.) and then their eyes.

 

What about their posture and walk? I require more details m'lady.

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What about their posture and walk? I require more details m'lady.

 

I can tell if they're confident and athletic by their posture and the way they walk. I can also tell if they're completely full of themselves. :laugh: Kinda hard to demonstrate on a forum. :p

 

Oh, I also notice their style.

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They'd most likely notice your teeth at first glance. Since they seem to glow.

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I can tell if they're confident and athletic by their posture and the way they walk. I can also tell if they're completely full of themselves. :laugh: Kinda hard to demonstrate on a forum. :p

 

Oh, I also notice their style.

 

Tasty details, I need more!

 

Shoulders? Abs? Etc? How can you tell by the way they walk if they're confident or cocky?

 

These things need explanation! :bunny:

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The most noticeable aspect in my line of vision, whether it's a general snapshot of everything, shoes, hair, a facial feature, clothes, etc.

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They'd most likely notice your teeth at first glance. Since they seem to glow.

 

Oddly enough I don't smile alot when I'm by myself. But when I'm with others, I joke and laugh alot. So I'm always smiling then.

 

Actually when I'm dolo, people say I look upset. Trying hard on changing that.

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The most noticeable aspect in my line of vision, whether it's a general snapshot of everything, shoes, hair, a facial feature, clothes, etc.

 

 

What about the hair? His shoes? Clothing?

 

I need some specifications here.

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I need some specifications here.

 

You asked what sort of things we notice first. There's no details about what we notice to specify unless you're talking about a specific guy.

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Hmpfff.... I always thought they looked at how think the wallet was first.. :laugh:

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You're right. I guess I should've added -

 

On the things you notice first, what about them? What attracts you about it? Likes? Dislikes?

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You're right. I guess I should've added -

 

On the things you notice first, what about them? What attracts you about it? Likes? Dislikes?

 

Then you should start a new thread, a reeeeeeeeeeeeeally broad, general thread, where every lady here lists of what she does and does not find attractive in a man. You'll get answers as varied as the ladies giving them. ;)

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His nose. First thing I look at is his nose and if it's nice, then I proceed from there.

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Then you should start a new thread, a reeeeeeeeeeeeeally broad, general thread, where every lady here lists of what she does and does not find attractive in a man. You'll get answers as varied as the ladies giving them. ;)

 

:lmao: Ugh you're right, OP still stands! What's the first thing you notice? That's all.

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:lmao: Ugh you're right, OP still stands! What's the first thing you notice? That's all.

 

I notice the way he carries himself. His overall package. Like I said, I can tell if he's a sincerely confident guy, or if he's a Jersey Shore wannabe douche. :)

 

Then I try to look at his eyes, and make eye contact. I think there's a lot you can tell about a guy by what's behind his eyes.

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What about the hair? His shoes? Clothing?

 

I need some specifications here.

 

If he has wacky hair, I'll notice that.

 

If he has wacky shoes, I'll notice those.

 

If he has...er...you get the picture.

 

That is, if there's something there that stands out and seems slightly out of the ordinary, that sets him apart, then I will notice it (usually).

 

If nothing stands out then it's usually just a general snapshot off everything.

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His package.

 

Why am I not surprised?

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Why am I not surprised?

 

:lmao::lmao::lmao::lmao:

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Why am I not surprised?

 

That too... ;)

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Say you and a guy make eye contact, but he's a bit on the nervous/shy side even though he's good looking. Turn on or off?

 

And bulge to? Wow that's great.

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Say you and a guy make eye contact, but he's a bit on the nervous/shy side even though he's good looking. Turn on or off?

 

It would probably turn me off.

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It would probably turn me off.

 

Why is that?

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Say you and a guy make eye contact, but he's a bit on the nervous/shy side even though he's good looking. Turn on or off?

 

Veering towards turn off but if there's something there when there's eye contact, that might compensate.

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Why is that?

 

Because I like confident men. A guy I see at the grocery store, or a park, or wherever, really shouldn't be shy and nervous. I'm a stranger, there's nothing to fear.

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