capnharry Posted February 14, 2011 Posted February 14, 2011 (edited) Last night I went out with a girl and it was the first time we'd met (although we casually talked for a while), and before we went out she was back and forth last minute on whether she was going. Finally she settled on going (I wonder if its because she knew I already had gotten a babysitter, I'm a single parent). Before getting there we had been talking on the phone and the topic of height came up and when she realized we were close in height it seemed to seriously bother her. Anyways, I get there and of course the first thing she said was 'geez you are short'! Well I tell her to stand in front of the mirror and I had an inch on her lol and that was pretty much the end of the topic so I dunno if it really bothered her. I had her laughing the whole time and it really seemed to go well. I think maybe she was pleasantly surprised maybe? She did refer to it as a date many times through the night, which struck me because we neer really called it that beforehand, we just made plans to meet each other. One thing that seemed to maybe be a red flag was she brought up, without details, a couple of bad relationships and brought up things she didn't like in guys on a few occasions (nothing I was doing). Anyways there was no physical contact, which I don't think is a big deal or says much, but I did offer to walk her to her car because she was parked a ways from me, but she insisted she was fine. I took this to mean probably no second date, but before I got to my car she had already texted me saying 'thanks for tonight. I had a great time!' I said as much and left it at that. I waited until this afternoon and we had a brief exchange through texts, she seemed kind of short when responding. I really enjoyed the date and would like to see her again. I don't really know how to read the 'total package'. Does it sound like I should go for a second date, and if so how long before I ask. Edited February 14, 2011 by capnharry
Author capnharry Posted February 14, 2011 Author Posted February 14, 2011 Sorry to bump my own post, hoping for some help here...
Saphira Posted February 14, 2011 Posted February 14, 2011 well you wont really know how well it went untill you ask for that second date. and you can talk about it now if you want. just say something like, "you said you had a great time and so did i. i was thinking if youd like to maybe......" fill in the rest. it sounds like she may have had bad relationships and maybe is hesitant to start a new one. but if you like this girl, take the initiative and ask her for that second date. maybe she is short with you because of work, or like a said, hesitant for a new "someone". i would say good luck and give that second date a try. and dont wory about the highth thing. my guy is only an inch taller then i am. (should see me in heals, he hates that!) lmao no but, seriously, if she likes you she wont let something that small get in the way. good luck!
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