randomperson83 Posted February 14, 2011 Posted February 14, 2011 i don't mind so much if you know my name, but the other 2 people, we'll just call them rob and rebecka for privacy issues. Anyways, me and rob are the same age and we have been friends since we were 13, (27) and i met this girl rebecka when she started dating robs cousin, whom all 3 of us hate now for reasons i will not disclose here. it's important to note that she is younger than us, but still legal. I was friends with her for a long time, and one night while she was very drunk and very upset with robs cousin, she came down stairs to my apartment (he lived above me for a period of time) and we got to talking and she was looking me in the eye and had put her hand on my shoulder and was being quite clear about what she wanted.. this was like 3 -4 years ago and she was not legal, so i had to tell her i just can't do it because of her boyfriend and her age. After words i explained to the guy what had transpired she found out and got quite upset with me, so i stopped talking to her. then 1 year ago i seen her on the street and i decided to ask her on a date and she said yes, but i got drunk and it turned into a train wreck, she came back the next night and rob was there and was freaking out because he said i had scared her off. so i said i was sorry and left her alone. he also explained after this point that he wouldn't dater her because i was going after her. i thought about her alot up until now and ocassionally texted her after she gave me her phone number. (6 months ago?), she wants to play xbox live and wow with me from time to time, this weekend when rob got off work, he said lets go fishing (ice) on saturday (yesterday) and i said sure, and then he explains that rebecka and her brother are coming with, so we did and she was talking to me still, and we had a pretty good time on the ice, we go home, he drops her off and says you want to come have some drinks at blakes or my place. So they come over to my place last night and everyones drinking playing xbox all that, and i said why dont you ask her brother (they were using my stereo/computer for music, and i didnt want to interupt them, but didnt want them going through my personal stuff on there) and as the night goes on, he keeps picking fights, calling names and trying to tell me what to do even after i shoot him a text 5 feet away saying dude cut it out, he even got the other people talking crap to me too. i was probably arguing a little bit more than i should have but he just refused to let up, by the time they had to leave she was very annoyed by the half drunks bickering and got "bored" and wanted to go home, then as my friend left i told him no more rebecka tommorrow... ( because i was just sick of it) i know he's had some bull crap to take care of today but he says i'll be over tommorrow, comes over today, picks up his crap and takes off.... i noticed she was joking and teasing with him a little more, and i was a bit jealous, but never said a word i havent called her up to ask her out again in the past year as much as i've wanted to, because i didn't want to make any more huge mistakes on my part. so whats really going on with this sitaution, and if my thinking is right about whats going on between them, what am i supposed to say to him? am i some kind of sicko? just being around her makes me feel like i am invincible, but i'm afraid i already know the truth. thanks for taking the time to read.
Author randomperson83 Posted February 14, 2011 Author Posted February 14, 2011 bumps for love, no pun intended really.
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