rajcs25 Posted February 14, 2011 Posted February 14, 2011 I am in a big dilemma since last few days. I broke up with my ex last month because she wanted to rush on marriage. I liked her , but cant just get married as i needed some more time. I was with her just for 6 months. Now we have NC for last 3 weeks. Should i see her on Valentine's day? Or a bad idea?
Am4Real Posted February 14, 2011 Posted February 14, 2011 What would contacting her accomplish? Nothing! Put your guilt back in your pocket and let here move on, just like you should!
mridul_chajilee Posted February 14, 2011 Posted February 14, 2011 Just follow NC.No need to contact her.May be she is now with other guy,dont disturb her and let her do as she like.one day she will tired.
0hpenelope Posted February 14, 2011 Posted February 14, 2011 Should i see her on Valentine's day? Or a bad idea? What for? It's a couple's day, let's be cool about letting couples have their day - And also let the restaurant employees, movie theater employees, mall employees, hotel employees have their "I hate my life and this job so much" day. Because to me, that's what Valentine's Day is about. It doesn't sound very romantic to me.
PowerOfOne Posted February 14, 2011 Posted February 14, 2011 And also let the restaurant employees, movie theater employees, mall employees, hotel employees have their "I hate my life and this job so much" day. Because to me, that's what Valentine's Day is about. It doesn't sound very romantic to me. Haha! Love it!
marqueemoon4 Posted February 14, 2011 Posted February 14, 2011 its a nonsense Hallmark holiday anyway.. no, don't do it.
Author rajcs25 Posted February 14, 2011 Author Posted February 14, 2011 What would happen if i break NC for this just one day? I am very tempted
0hpenelope Posted February 14, 2011 Posted February 14, 2011 What would happen if i break NC for this just one day? I am very tempted Do it and answer your question. Good luck! I mean that. Perhaps you'll hear something favorable to you, perhaps you won't.
depplover_1980 Posted February 14, 2011 Posted February 14, 2011 What would happen if i break NC for this just one day? I am very tempted Answer the question honestly - what would be your objective in contacting her? Time to be honest with yourself and us...
Author rajcs25 Posted February 14, 2011 Author Posted February 14, 2011 Objective is there is someone in your life................. Dont know about few years from now, but at least not that we deserve to live life in depression Answer the question honestly - what would be your objective in contacting her? Time to be honest with yourself and us...
Chi townD Posted February 14, 2011 Posted February 14, 2011 How do you know if SHE'S depressed. She might have moved on and could be getting ready to go on a date. Still, you haven't given up a valid reason on why you want to contact her. DO you want to work things out with her?
Am4Real Posted February 15, 2011 Posted February 15, 2011 You sound selfish and are more worried about what is good for you rather than what should be good for you both after the termination of the relationship. Valentine’s Day is a “couples” day and dude, you’re not a couple!!! Helloooooo! Man up and move on!
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